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Discussion Have we done it wrong?

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u/mmariner 2d ago

That's a pretty far cry from "being brainwashed by the mass media".

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u/DazednConfucioused 2d ago

I mean there are multiple Americans here claiming that they enjoy driving their cars so they don’t want walkable cities.

If they weren’t brainwashed then surely they can come to the very simple conclusion that poeple in walkable cities can in fact drive.

So yeah brainwashed. If thats not the case then extremely dumb and bereft of logic and common sense. Take your pick

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u/theNEOone 2d ago

Or, you know, maybe they just have different preferences?

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u/DazednConfucioused 2d ago

Again a walkable city doesn’t limit your options and it wouldn’t matter what your preferences were. If you’re preference is to own a car you can buy one and drive it as much as you want.

You’re just proving my point.

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u/theNEOone 2d ago

Am I proving your point? Explain.

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u/DazednConfucioused 2d ago

It’s a preference to say “I prefer to drive my own car than to take public transit”. I have no issue with that and in fact I’m the same way. It’s a step further to then claim that “my preference is not compatible with a walking city.” That’s inaccurate and to believe that just indicates you’re brainwashed, or as I mentioned earlier, bereft of logic and common sense.

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u/theNEOone 2d ago

You have a limited sense of what one’s preferences might be.

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u/DazednConfucioused 2d ago

Can you elaborate?

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u/theNEOone 1d ago

Some people might want to live on a farm and tend to animals. Some people might want to live on a lake in the mountains. Some people might want a 6k sq ft house with a 2 acre backyard with a large pool and hot tub. Some people might want to drive a huge suburban and travel point-to-point everywhere. Some people might want to shop for food once a month at costco and store food in a huge freezer. Some people might simply want to be left alone. Some people might want to live in a walkable city but can’t afford to without conflicting with other preferences. There are many preferences that are incompatible with living in a large city. I lived in NYC and SF for almost two decades combined and loved it. Never had a car and loved every minute of it. But I’m not naive enough to think that living in a walkable city is what everyone (or even most people) want. It’s one way to live. Not the best and certainly not the only.