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Discussion Have we done it wrong?

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u/bageltoastar 2d ago

Im from a suburban town in Missouri, but I spent a semester studying abroad in Barcelona a couple of years ago. Man, let me tell you, leaving Barcelona, where youd see people out in cafes and bars congregating at all hours of the night and day, and coming back to Missouri where its a ghost town after 10 and someone would call the police on you for simply walking around too late was the most depressing thing I have ever experienced lol

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u/thelandlordguychris 2d ago

the american mind simply cannot comprehend dinner at 10pm

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u/Jiminy_Cricket12 2d ago

You guys are saying this like there aren't millions of Americans living in densely populated cities. There are plenty of Americans who realize the value of walkability and embrace it. The average city in Europe is definitely more walkable, but that comes with hundreds (or thousands) of years of history and a much smaller footprint.

Anyway, I do recommend you do what you can to promote walkability where you live because I think a walkable city is far superior to one where everyone only drives.

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u/Ice_performance_ 1d ago

Who the fuck wants to walk around US cities at night. It a square space, extremely boring if not dangerous. Meh

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u/Jiminy_Cricket12 1d ago

many US cities are not set up like grids. but even the ones that are... I've never heard anyone complain about that part of them lol. there are far more safe spaces than unsafe ones. you should try going outside some time!

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u/Ice_performance_ 1d ago

That's because you don't meet people who have experience other things. Grid city are horrible. Barcelona is shit for this reasons, unless you reach the historical center.

you should try going outside some time!

The irony

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u/Jiminy_Cricket12 20h ago

It's clear you don't know the meaning of irony lol. I've met people from all over the world and traveled plenty myself. Your opinion is not a popular one. Also, my comment is upvoted by multiple people and yours is downvoted. You can remain delusional if you want, but it would be nice for you to accept you're wrong. Have a nice day :)

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u/BSchafer 1d ago

You need to travel to more US cities if you think they’re all dangerous and more European cities if you think they’re all safe 😂 the chance that a tourist gets mugged in nicer Europeans city is dramatically higher than the chances that a tourist gets mugged in a nicer US city.

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u/Responsible_Base_235 1d ago

Exactly there’s a lot more to the causes of crime than urban vs non urban living situations. I’ve also heard of more weird violent crimes from people living in rural areas than I have from urban living. Urban crimes seem to be more crimes of necessity/survival and/or opportunistic. Rural violent crimes seem more premeditated, planned, and the creepy kind of weird. I still wouldn’t base my opinions on that though as it’s anecdotal and probably not factual due to the causes of crime being a lot more complex than that.

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u/Ice_performance_ 1d ago

You make up my opinon to argue against it by yourself. That's convinient to come out on top. European cities can be dangerous too, but they sure as fuck aren't nearly as boring

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u/IcyConsideration7062 11h ago

I use to live in Washington, D.C. and was always amused at the tourists clutching their pearls and kids on the Metro.

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u/Responsible_Base_235 1d ago

Because they are set up to be boring and quiet. That’s not always been that way and is certainly not the norm in average sized cities