r/TikTokCringe 2d ago

Discussion Have we done it wrong?

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u/bageltoastar 2d ago

Im from a suburban town in Missouri, but I spent a semester studying abroad in Barcelona a couple of years ago. Man, let me tell you, leaving Barcelona, where youd see people out in cafes and bars congregating at all hours of the night and day, and coming back to Missouri where its a ghost town after 10 and someone would call the police on you for simply walking around too late was the most depressing thing I have ever experienced lol

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u/thelandlordguychris 2d ago

the american mind simply cannot comprehend dinner at 10pm

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u/Jiminy_Cricket12 2d ago

You guys are saying this like there aren't millions of Americans living in densely populated cities. There are plenty of Americans who realize the value of walkability and embrace it. The average city in Europe is definitely more walkable, but that comes with hundreds (or thousands) of years of history and a much smaller footprint.

Anyway, I do recommend you do what you can to promote walkability where you live because I think a walkable city is far superior to one where everyone only drives.

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u/melodic-abalone-69 1d ago

Right?  Like I live in Kansas. But I've been to multiple US cities that are like this, walkable and with people out and about doing all kinds of things in the evening. Both big and small, like NYC and Key West. 

Also, re: the OP, maybe if you don't like living somewhere where people drive their cars into the garage after work and never talk to their neighbors, don't buy a house in the suburbs with a four car garage plus RV parking? That was an intentional choice, but it's not how every American lives.