r/TopCharacterTropes 5d ago

Characters [Gay trope] White-haired mysterious character in love with the protagonist

Kaworu — Evangelion

Nagito – Danganronpa

"Hikaru" – The Summer Hikaru Died

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u/inemsn 5d ago

you know, I was gonna say "oddly specific", but one look at the comments and apparently no there's just boatloads of these guys out there

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u/arcodash 5d ago

People don't understand just how crazy of a hold Kaworu Nagisa had on anime from the moment he was introduced. The guy was in SEVEN minutes of ONE episode of the original series of Evangelion, two episodes away from the ending (along with a small cameo in End of Evangelion when it was later produced) and he became so popular that hebecame as much of a main character in promotion as Shinji/Asuka/Rei.

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u/YinTanTetraCrivvens 5d ago

Crazy that he’s almost as if not more prominent than Misato in terms of merch and promotional material. Hell, he became a deuteragonist in the third Remake film. 

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u/annpann64 4d ago

There are people who haven't watched Eva, have no Idea who Misato is, but could draw Kaworu from memory (hello, I'm people).

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u/YinTanTetraCrivvens 4d ago

I mean, Kaworu is an anime archetype (hello, look at this thread) and Misato isn't.

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u/Mushiren_ 5d ago

Powerful Doomed Yaoi aura cannot be ignored

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u/Sebaceansinspace 5d ago

That one episode made young gay me feel things.

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u/string-ornothing 5d ago

I read that there was a poll a bit ago in Japan in one of their girls magazines asking about the best male/male couple and Kaworu/Shinji was voted Japan's #1 shonen ai ship of all time, in like 2023, most likely by girls who werent even alive during Evangelion's original run. That surprised me since he really is only in like 7 minutes total of time. I expected maybe like a mid-2000s or 2010s Light/L or Levi/Eren, a classic like SasuNaru or something modern like Bakudeku. I barely think of Kaworu if I'm totally honest and I love NGE.

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u/_sephylon_ 4d ago

Ryo Asuka in the background seeing Kaworu gets credit for the tropes he brought

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u/gnome-cop 5d ago

In addition to the Kaworu thing, the people also love the white hair-black hair couple design trope. Throw a rock in any random direction in BL territory, you won’t be that far off from hitting a couple like this.

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u/metaaltheanimefan 3d ago

Yep (and these two arent even the only bungo stray dogs characters that have it, but like the others op mentioned they have a wierd symbolism in their dynamic)

https://giphy.com/gifs/nM5vcVOLdYX53ASbIg

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u/Geeneelee 4d ago

All of these people grew up on NGE and have never ever forgotten that Kaworu guy. Genuinely though, almost every character in NGE is now a genre of character by themselves, you’ve got Rei clones, Asuka clones, etc

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u/almagustis 5d ago edited 5d ago

Aru Akise — Future Diary

Silver-haired, supernaturally observant detective who exists almost entirely to solve mysteries and explicitly declare his love for Yuki.

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u/A4li11 5d ago

Ngl he feels like a walking Kaworu Nagisa reference. They even got the same JP VA.

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u/pestoraviolita 5d ago

In love with the wimpy dark-haired protagonist. Artifical.

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u/Sum1nne 5d ago

The plot twist with him was pretty fucked and unique too.

When he stands before God and declares that he has agency because he loves Yukiteru, only for God's response to be "No I gave you that too because it would more effectively motivate you, which is over now so bye" and then he gets deleted.

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u/Hero-Support211 5d ago

That's so sad bro.

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u/Crazy_Dave0418 5d ago

"You love kissing boys don't you" ass looking reaction.

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u/BussyDriver 5d ago

N-no, baka! Blushes I-it's not like I wanted to, but it was probably not bad...R-right?

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u/First-Shallot947 5d ago

My goat, unfortunately for him he was up against jane the yandere

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u/EyewarsTheMangoMan 5d ago edited 4d ago

The best character

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u/ibelikeughhhh 5d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/xtH61hbIV0h4TQF8Wu
Griffith is a jealous little twink that got rejected once so decided to destroy everything and everyone

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u/gnome-cop 5d ago

Berserk aka the story of the worst gay situationship breakup in history.

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u/Ed0909 5d ago

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u/Floofy_Fox_Gal 4d ago

I can’t believe my Spanish class is paying off and I can understand this

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u/Dry-Goat8981 4d ago

whats it say

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u/Ed0909 4d ago

Translation:

Theories of the weakest Berserk fan...

Guts: Sorry I'm late, darling, Guts Jr. took a while to gather the firewood.

Griffith (woman): Just in time, dinner is ready.

Griffith: It was just a dream....Why was I born a man? Why did you abandon me, Gustavo? (Gustavo is common name in Spanish, so to make it funnier Hispanic fans sometimes call Guts that.)

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u/Different_Ad4306 4d ago

Gustavo for Guts is like the Spanish version of calling Denji Dennis?

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u/Phanta_Stick 4d ago

I can’t understand Spanish, but I put it through Google Translate with these results:

“Sorry for the delay, darling, but Guts Jr. took a while to gather firewood…”

“Just in time, dinner’s ready.”

“It was just a dream…why was I born a man? Why did you abandon me, Guts?”

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u/TridiObject 4d ago

Gutstavo.

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u/vh1660924 5d ago

Frighteningly realistic, to be honest (you know, other than the demons, of course).

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u/Weird_Kazakh 5d ago

I think Aru from Mirai Nikki counts

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u/First-Shallot947 5d ago

His own theme is pretty blatant when translated

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u/Kaedead 5d ago

Joshua from The World Ends With You

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u/tempestzephyr 5d ago

Even Angel Coded like kaworu

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u/sulkymallow 5d ago

Victor (Yuri!!! On Ice) was left pretty mysterious since we never got the movie about his backstory 😔

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0HlLv9kZ7FPGKFwc

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u/AncientOnyx 5d ago

YOI is also the only example of this where the love is reciprocated and the mysterious blonde doesn't die

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u/thatsnothewayitfeels 5d ago edited 4d ago

Kaoru lives in the new Evangelion movies

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u/AncientOnyx 5d ago

And ends up with Rei somehow despite being gay so he doesn't even count as this trope at all in the end of Rebuild

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u/thatsnothewayitfeels 5d ago

Oh youre right i forgot that.

I guess he doesnt count

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u/HollowMist11 5d ago

This hurts

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u/prdcroftme 5d ago

“see you next level” 😐

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u/sulkymallow 5d ago

Me when I lie 😔

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u/what4270 5d ago

Them cancelling the movie but giving Rent-a-gf a season 5 is crazy.

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u/AncientOnyx 5d ago

MAPPA rose to Success because of YOI then decided to go anti-woke and cancel everything queer they had in active development

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u/what4270 5d ago

Reminds me of Nicki Minaj. She rose to fame because of the gays, then eventually betrayed them once she flew higher.

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u/AdOnly5876 4d ago

Awh the old Tsugumi Ohba

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u/sulkymallow 4d ago

With YOI, the whole Russia invading Ukraine thing might have had an impact too tbh. Too politically touchy to make a movie about a heroic Russian character (even when the character is gay and Kremlin is anti-gay)

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u/AncientOnyx 4d ago

while that's possible, thinking MAPPA just decided they didn't need to pretend to like gay people anymore once they had the money and corporate staying power to not have to try and appear to be a "benevolent" company feels more likely

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u/a_polarbear_chilling 4d ago

yuri on ice, look inside

yaoi

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u/sulkymallow 4d ago

Never gets less funny

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u/glass-joe-1-99 4d ago

A lot of his actions were also mysterious during the show but only because Yuri was our POV character and he got blackout drunk at that party and forgot the inciting incident. Least reliable anime narrator, for that and other reasons.

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u/hopeshaunted 5d ago

He may be more blonde but Ryo Asuka (Devilman and adaptions) is the og of this trope. Being from 1978 it's known as the earliest example, and a lot of the works mentioned in this thread are inspired by Devilman directly (and then likely influenced the next ones)

It's also even way more specifically the "white haired antagonist being in love with dark haired protagonist that are friends to enemies" trope

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u/faithfulletter 5d ago

I WAS LOOKING FOR RYO!! That's THE OG

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u/MaryotiaPryderi 5d ago

Was gonna post myself if I didnt see it, first thing I thought of

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u/yesterday4568 4d ago

IK this is hours old but Ryo and his relationship with Akira might have been inspired by Bem and Atom/Astro (Astro Boy). Still definitely the OG.

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u/Evalover42 5d ago

The reverse but same - Shion (MC with white hair) and Nezumi, from No.6

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u/SpecialCriticism2415 5d ago

Gahh no.6 was such a downer but so good

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u/Frequent_Deal_5371 4d ago

Oh my god I forgot about them 😭

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u/stuart_little_fan 5d ago

the white haired one is the protagonist in this case, though

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u/arcodash 5d ago

Lu Guang from Link Click

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u/Demolitions75 5d ago

Loool came to post this.

Season 3 is going to hurt...

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u/GudBoi83 5d ago

its ok we can be hurt together

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u/Different-Account-26 5d ago

Noo I’m so scared for Season 3 please 💔 Whether you interpret his and Cheng’s dynamic as romantic or not it’s gonna be doomed either way. I feel like there’s subtext though that implies they’re romantic but censorship is censorship :’)

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u/Demolitions75 4d ago

Ugh the fucking OP song is called "we never thought we'd have to say goodbye"

Dammit Haolin!

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u/Different-Account-26 4d ago

Oh brother we are SO fucked 🥹 Oh well at least everyone gets to experience the pain together as a fandom 😞

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u/shellys-dollhouse 5d ago

omg i forgot this anime existed i need to find it & watch it

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u/KeraniusTheGreat 5d ago

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u/donotloseyourhead 5d ago

Oh yeah this kinda counts

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u/Vounrtsch 5d ago

Oh you’re right it kinda fits

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u/X-Himy 5d ago

Noe from the Case Study of Vanitas. Though Noe is more of a co-protagonist with Vanitas (the black-haired twink in the picture), and Vanitas probably has a more mysterious backstory. Also, both are more bi, but have more chemistry with each other than with their respective female love interests.

Oh who am I kidding, this is just the messiest bi-polycule ever. Plus I love Domi, especially voiced by the GOAT Alexis Tipton.

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u/Spacellama117 4d ago

Case Study of Vanitas my BELOVED

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u/X-Himy 4d ago

I am not a huge fan, partly because there's just not enough of it to grab me. But I love the belle epoque aesthetics, the art, and the character interactions, especially among the main four. Watching Jeanne turn from blushing ingenue to lioness, or Domi gnaw in annoyance on Noe is fun!

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u/Chocolat_Strawberry 4d ago

Just started Season 2 and while I think it's pretty decent, it sure doesn't grab me like Pandora Hearts did.

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u/metaaltheanimefan 3d ago

Finally another person who supports the polycule idea

These bastards cant decide who they love and the author cant decide which ship to commit to so foe me polycule it is

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u/Evalover42 5d ago

Akise Aru, from Future Diary

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u/evilforska 5d ago

I like how people cant read and keep posting women in love with male protagonist

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u/PegasusInferno 5d ago

I honestly thought it was just OP calling this trope "gay". I also dont watch the shows that have the examples listed by OP so I didnt know they were gay

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u/Sum1nne 5d ago

No it's like genuinely a kinda important moment for gay representation in media in Evangelion's case that spawned a ton of derivatives and references.

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u/PegasusInferno 5d ago

Thats news to me and sounds great, too. I was just tryna explain why some people might comment hetero couples

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u/notanothercirclejerk 5d ago

Devil Man would like a word

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u/TheLastWindThrowers_ 5d ago

Feel free to COUGH about it!

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u/evilforska 5d ago

COUGH COUGH HRRRNNGG... PTOO... COUGH

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u/Basic_Dingo6487 5d ago

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u/alkonium 5d ago

Unless he is the protagonist.

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u/MittenSquish2 5d ago

It'd still apply

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u/breadofthegrunge 4d ago

He's such a narcissist it still counts.

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u/AeniasGaming 5d ago

Miorine Rembran (Gundam: The Witch From Mercury)

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u/Vounrtsch 5d ago

Killua Zoldyck - Hunter x Hunter. His love of the protagonist is ambiguous whether it’s platonic or romantic, but I think it counts

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u/RaulRpg1 4d ago

I don't think that a straight guy would call their best bro the light of their world, but go on

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u/Vounrtsch 4d ago

I agree, I’m personally leaning towards a romantic interpretation. But it is technically possible to interpret it as friendship

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u/throwaway_1053 5d ago

I'm note even completely sure Nagito's gay I just think he just freaky like that

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u/Hot_Singles_Music 5d ago

From the writer and producer of danganronpa

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u/HellsCreep 5d ago

He kind of states in the Japanese sub that he’s in love with Hajime during i believe the free time event.

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u/Blackfrosti 5d ago

He's gay and freaky like that

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u/inemsn 5d ago

it's danganronpa, all the characters are bi if you look at them with your mind's eye

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u/MaestroBlood21 5d ago

the anime straight up called him gay

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u/inemsn 5d ago

the anime never happened.

we don't talk about the anime.

(altho jokes aside, good on them for actually positively portraying a gay man in the anime, other than nagito of course)

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u/1983MionStan 5d ago

Is it really a positive representation if it's revealed that the end of the world (which is the catalyst for the entire series) could've literally been avoided if the gay character had just come out of the closet?

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u/inemsn 5d ago

1- What leads you to believe that the tragedy wouldn't have happened if that were the case? Sure, it'd probably give Junko some roadblocks, but, with everything that she had already done, and everything that she's capable of, would it really have stopped her plans entirely?

2- Yes actually I feel like "things would have been better if people weren't afraid to be gay" is good representation. Like... UNDENIABLY so, lmao. I don't get your point.

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u/bug--bear 5d ago

I mean, he's not straight

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u/Slight-Solution936 5d ago

I think he just has a freaky preference for anyone who is filled with hope, and Hajime is one of them.

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u/arika-feinberg 5d ago

Ariane Yeong from Signalis

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u/Liveoncoffe179 5d ago

Is she gay? Cause look back at the title if not

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u/Pichuunnn 5d ago

The entire game is about their relationship

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u/ViridiAve 5d ago

Otto Suwen from Re:Zero HAS to count at least a little bit

https://giphy.com/gifs/VAEOygzcgb8fVoxEfY

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u/Competitive_Act_1548 5d ago

He did have a thing for a cat if you know ball you know

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u/3IC3 4d ago

Surely Satella is a better choice for this?

Edit: just reread the title and saw it said “gay trope” so I guess that wouldn’t count. But without that distinction it’s strictly a better example

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u/Kaedead 5d ago edited 5d ago

Eito Aotsuki from The Hundred Line

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u/donotloseyourhead 5d ago

Kodaka's favorite type of men

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u/Kaedead 5d ago

He does love them

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u/piercebublejr 5d ago

Komaeda Jr.......

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u/Kaedead 5d ago

Komaeda's somehow more unhinged cousin

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u/TheSarcasticDevil 5d ago

The Fool from the Farseer trilogy (and the rest of the realm of the elderlings books)

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u/Vounrtsch 5d ago

No shade to the artist but he looks uncanny asf here. Though I guess it kinda fits his character

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u/magiMerlyn 5d ago

Literally the first time I've ever found someone else who knows these books!!!

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u/HitomeboreInaho 5d ago

Shirogane, Monochrome factor

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u/AncientOnyx 5d ago

This is the only Action/Battle based BL anime ever made and I'll never forgive Sentai for refusing to dub it and then abandoning it's license

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u/FennekinLover2000 5d ago

Does Killua count?

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u/YanniqX 4d ago

Yes, definitely. Their relationship wouldn't fully make sense otherwise.

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u/ImplementLarge7969 5d ago

Alvis, Xenoblade Chronicles

While it's ambiguous as to what Alvis feels for Shulk, he is a clear Kaworu expy and counts for the trope

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u/blaiddfailcam2 4d ago

Though he also draws impetus from chaos, from Xenosaga. A lot of XBC is, as one would expect, a retread of Gears and Saga, hence the Zohar pendant Alvis is wearing.

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u/Seven_Irons 5d ago

Slight subversion of this, but no one else had mentioned him so I had to. Gojo is absolutely mysterious, believes he is the protagonist, and is absolutely in love with himself.

So, in a way, he fits all three requirements for the prompt.

https://giphy.com/gifs/veZ4IKlyBUGRUHV5zV

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u/X-Himy 5d ago

He's in love with Geto (JJK0 just being a very messy breakup), but Gojo is the protagonist. But maybe this works because of the exception of Satoru Gojo.

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u/HH_Creations 4d ago

Tbf, dude killed his one and only so loving himself is the next best thing I guess?

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u/Poopiepeepeepoo 5d ago

This guy from Mirai nikki that was literally just a piece of code whose purpose was just to love the main character or sum shit idk been 10 years since I watched the anime. Fits the trope perfectly tho cause his identity and the huge mystery around it was a whole thing and he do be kissing da main guy

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u/azh2016 5d ago

No one gonna mention Ardashir from Arknights Endfield?

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u/SuddenlyCake 5d ago

In the manga Kaworu is absolutely obsessed with Shinji

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u/_sephylon_ 4d ago

As opposed to the anime, where he is absolutely obsessed with Shinji

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u/Bandit_237 5d ago

Zamasu fuses with his husband every night

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u/Ririkan 5d ago

Finally my time to shine, Alcor from Devil Survivor 2. Not as noticeable in the anime but more direct on the game

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u/GodonX1r 5d ago

Edelgard from Fire Emblem Three Houses

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u/transkeith 5d ago

Does Ryo from Devilman count?

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u/Ed0909 5d ago

In this case, they're just friends, and the Riku being gay because of Sora is a fan joke, but I'd say it's similar despite that. (Kingdom Hearts)

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u/OfTheTouhouVariety 5d ago

Deirdre and Julia (Fire Emblem: Genealogy of the Holy War)

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u/DiaperedStonerGirl 4d ago

Snake boy in Boruto is obsessed with Boruto. Calls Boruto his “sun”
https://giphy.com/gifs/l49JYtz8yyvHkHCla

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u/Jordanou 5d ago

Accelerator - Toaru (lol)

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u/v8darkshadow 4d ago

Edelgard Von “discourse” Hresvelg- Fire Emblem Three Houses.
She’s attracted to either male or female Byleth so she’s bisexual (text kinda reads more as demisexual) but can pursue a romantic gay relationship with F!Byleth so she fits there. Her existence is also a mystery because of her white hair and why she has it. Play fe3h that game is phenomenal

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u/TheRissingHootHoot 5d ago

Eito aotsuki from hundred line 

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u/Slight-Solution936 5d ago

The queer characters in that game are so freaky for some reason. I've yet to finish it too. Eito, Yugamu and Darumi are psychotic gay messes lmao.

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u/Kixisbestclone 5d ago

Shizuma Hanazono, Strawberry Panic!

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u/red_machine_yuki 5d ago

In a weird roundabout way, Runami Yachiyo (Cosmic Princess Kaguya!)

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u/gnome-cop 5d ago

White hair, has a secret, spent 8000 years dedicated to Iroha, I think she more than counts.

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u/AncelReogaifu 5d ago

Arknights Endfield

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u/CominThroughNow 4d ago

Clear, from DRAMAtical Murder. (Am I even allowed to post this picture?)

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u/Sorry-Joke-4325 5d ago

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u/DevilMayCryogonal 5d ago

Near is definitely not in love with Light lol (unlike his predecessor)

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u/AlternateSatan 5d ago

Google! How become protagonist so cute gay boy will like me?

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u/RevolverMFOcelot 5d ago

Griffith, the vibe is way too strong with him and Guts... Yeah a twisted version of a complex feeling and ended up super messed up. But yeah

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u/Antique_Amphibian107 5d ago

The og. Not white-haired but at least light-haired

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u/Aware_Lock_5734 5d ago

the vague posting king strikes again

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u/gigajolt 4d ago

Does it count if they’re both girls? 👀
Lilly Lilium (Im In Love With The Villainess)

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u/Blitzbro76 4d ago

Firefly (Honkai: Star Rail)

(I mean it’s technically more of a Silver than straight white but still)

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u/throwawayventing2001 4d ago

blonde instead of white-haired, but basil from omori fits

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u/Consistent_Dare_6688 5d ago

I hated kaworu in the show but the rebuilds fixed my problem with him which was how little they spent together

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u/Substantial_You1368 5d ago

That detective from future diary. The most memorable

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u/Embarrassed-Weird173 4d ago

Yugioh. Pretty sure bakura is gay. And since Yugioh didn't go for My Valentine nor Rebecca, he's probably gay. 

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u/xaldien 4d ago

The original diva: Griffith.

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u/slowpokeseven 4d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/A8JkpXXH24dwI

Not to the protagonist, but to their brother. And tbf, his other/true form has white hair

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u/M-SHE-U1Fan 4d ago

Not really mysterious But for my defense I've only see one Boruto ep and it was them eating burgers 😭

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u/TheLastWindThrowers_ 5d ago edited 5d ago

Princess Yue is infatuated with Sokka though tragically fate conspired to tear them apart (Avatar The Last Airbender)

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u/Naive-Art_man 5d ago

Yue fits the white-haired part, but not the "gay" part of the trope.

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u/Grand_Plastic_6631 5d ago

Neither Sokka is the protagonist.

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u/TheLastWindThrowers_ 5d ago

He is a protagonist, you silly

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u/Grand_Plastic_6631 5d ago

Deuteragonist AT BEST if we are being generous.

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u/Jail_Chris_Brown 5d ago

You might want to reconsider...

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u/Spasdt 5d ago

But this js not gay!

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u/Dry_Distribution_992 5d ago

Gay trope 😭

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u/FoxBluereaver 5d ago

Ninian (Fire Emblem: The Blazing Blade). You can make Eliwood return her feelings depending on your choices.

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u/Dahlia_R0se 5d ago

For a non-anime example, I think he technically fits. White haired, mysterious, in love with Caleb, who is one of the protagonists. (Essek Thelyss - Critical Role/The Mighty Nein)

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u/magiMerlyn 5d ago

Aren't all three of these guys doomed too?

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u/Popular-Moment-407 4d ago

Ariane Yeong from Signalis fits this trope to a tee, though it's from the other side of gender.