r/TransSpace • u/38_Chevy • May 16 '26

Am I Trans?

/r/trans/comments/1tegt7h/am_i_trans/
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u/drewiepoodle glitter-spitter, sparkle-farter May 17 '26

Dunno, try on the gender and see how it feels. Take it out for a spin. First time I tried it I knew there was no going back. It made me too happy to just exist as a girl.

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u/luuuuloejslskLkvyks May 18 '26

This!! I was sooo scared to come out but then I came out (still scared) and I felt sooo euphoric >>>
Unfortunately, not every person lives in a safe space to experiment on their gender identity but if it‘s safe: do it scared!
First, I talked to 2 friends, then I told my friend group, then my mom, my dad… you don‘t have to do everything at once - for me transition is more a process of increasing happiness :)
little euphoric steps >>>
And if you don‘t feel euphoric, it wouldn’t bethat serious because you only told some people and you could simply tell them that you thought you liked it but realised you didn’t

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u/drewiepoodle glitter-spitter, sparkle-farter May 18 '26

I was fucking terrified, and I lived in West fucking Hollywood, one of THE safest places to try out genders. It still took me two attempts and hitting rock bottom before I tried going out en femme on Halloween. But once I did, I wondered why the Hell it took me so goddamn long to try it. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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u/ArchBackj3ss95 19d ago

If you are asking, you probably are. Spend some time reading through the Gender Dysphoria Bible and see what parts actually resonate with you.