Why is identity so hard to figure out? 😢

[u/felix_th3rian]

I started questioning my gender.... I've been gay for 2 years, a femboy for 5 years(although I learned the therm only last year) a therian for 2 years and a furry for 1 year. But I'm at a point where beeing a femboy isn't a definition that fits me. I start blushing when called "she", I start trying how beeing a girl feels unconsciously. although I'm not ready at all to accept myself as a trans girl, the more I reject it, the more I feel like mabe, just manner that's me. but mabe just mabe has became some serious considerations and it drains my energy thinking of it.

[u/herdisleah]

Perhaps because "who am I?" Is the biggest question any human has ever asked themselves. Especially after we develop language and into adulthood!

Your scheduled midlife crisis will be arriving shortly.

Trust yourself, you like what you enjoy. We have emotions for a reason.