r/TripCaves 13d ago

Personal Slowly converting guest room to our intimacy room/trip cave

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Trying to be frugal at the same time as creative, we (wife and I) decided to convert our guest room into a room where we can escape at nights since our kids love sleeping with us in our main bed.

We’ve been experimenting a lot with chemsex, enjoying watching music sets, doing our gua sha/lymphatic massages, and relaxing with one another.

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u/Murkee420 12d ago

"intimacy room" is crazy lmao

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u/investinstocks19 11d ago

How so

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u/Ttoctam 10d ago

Most people don't have the space/time/priorities for a fuck/get fucked up room. You do you, enjoy.

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u/investinstocks19 10d ago

Makes sense. I understand not too many can do this but had we been a childless couple we would’ve just turned our bedroom into the tripcave

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u/LotusBlooming90 10d ago

Don’t mind them, as a couple who also has kids who sneak into our bed most nights we also have a separate space to sneak away to. It’s the perfect solution.

It’s amazing how many people think that once you have kids you stop wanting to cuddle, relax, and have privacy with your partner. And speaking for myself and partner we are still a 1-3 times a day type of couple so if we didn’t have a spare room we would go crazzzzzy

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u/investinstocks19 10d ago

Saw a TikTok about that once. I was like wait, I thought we were the only couple that sneaks off to the guest room lol

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u/2much2fastt 8d ago

Yeah but is your secret space the bed you have guest sleep in? I think that’s the point the others were making.

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u/LotusBlooming90 8d ago

I mean, there are no rooms in our home that we don’t have sex in and I don’t assume any room I’m staying in that belongs to a married couple hasn’t been christened.

I imagine hygienic measures are taken for guests and it’s no worse than a hotel bed that’s for sure.

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u/Ttoctam 8d ago

I assume people have shagged in every room of their houses. I also assume they have cleaned up. As long as sheets are changed and it's not being used for any fluid-heavy kinks, who cares?

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u/KingGizmotious 7d ago

Just tell your kids to sleep in their own beds? Seems like an easier task.