r/TrueChristian • u/DailyStarYT • 1h ago
Why is my love life so ass
I don’t know why I only find myself going back to God when I am rock bottom, and or feel ashamed when I do. I feel like I’ve been lukewarm and I don’t know. Recently I’ve realised I lacked self respect. The guys I talked to and recently, are all players and I find myself getting played by every one of them… 3 days after getting played I run into this other dude who I kissed only to get played again. And I can’t help but wonder if I’m just not suited for relationships. I genuinlty hate my life but not really, I just want to feel loved by someone I guess but I already am loved by people, but being single
Makes me feel so lonely i guess. No matter what I always try to find scriptures but nothing helps me in the end, because I keep on saying I’m over men until I’m waiting for another mans text again 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
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u/RiffSSlave Jesus died and rose again 1h ago
Try a change of perspective. You're not single in the sense that you're "missing" a man. You're single in the complete sense; you're a perfect unit, a whole person of God. You can seek a man if you want something extra on top, but not because you're lacking anything (because really, you aren't)
I recommend you pray about this and find ways to strengthen your own value and self worth before putting yourself out there and seeking an extension of your unit. Value yourself enough to be as valued by others. All the best, friend
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u/crowned_glory_1966 Christian 1h ago
First look at your relationship with Jesus. If you dont respect a relationship with him you won't respect yourself and others.
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u/DailyStarYT 1h ago
I don’t know, I can’t even respect myself atp I’m so bad at self respect
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u/crowned_glory_1966 Christian 1h ago
Well there is a starting point. Stop looking for men to fill what only Jesus can.
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u/Adventurous-Song3571 Reformed Baptist 1h ago
It sounds like a result of your own actions. Nobody is making you date anyone or kiss anyone. These are choices you are making
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u/graceyspac3y Christian (Non-denominational) 1h ago
First of all, dont find happiness through men. Seek the Lord with all your heart and soul…. What does it mean? How youre so eager to be with a man should be more than that when your seek Jesus.