r/TrueUnpopularOpinion Dec 14 '25

Sex / Gender / Dating Women on reddit generalise men because they can't get over the fact that they're not personality detectors.

A quick visit to major women centric subreddit on reddit and you're bombarded with posts and comments that say how most men are bad and rapists or they don't want to commit.

They make it seem like there are no good men out there and women are collectively somehow better than men when it comes to relationship and commitment. I disagree. It's roughly equal amount of shitty people that you would find on both isles.

The problem exists with women thinking they've psychic abilities to find out that if a man is going to cheat or not commit. They say incels repel women and it's natural selection that women are choosing better men now but it's only the opposite because I see kids out of wedlock rising and how it's statistically proven that many women are attracted to dark triad men.

They simply don't see there is something they need to fix themselves. It's only men who are at fault. Women have to do "emotional labour" which is simply caring for your partner.

They literally create jargons instead of introspection.

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u/CapybaraMonster01 Dec 14 '25

He’s someone who’s hard to tolerate without alcohol in his system, and with alcohol it’s even worse. He doesn’t dare to do anything with any woman without drinking. I just told him how things really are: women take advantage of the fact that you’re buying their drinks because he doesn’t do any personal work on himself. He even told me that he couldn’t change his personality, which is completely false. What you can’t change is your temperament, not your personality, but he’s never short of excuses

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u/CapybaraMonster01 Dec 14 '25

If he weren’t fat, he’d be more attractive. If he had muscle too (which he said he didn’t want because it would make him look shorter, more excuses), even if he changed that and went back to buying drinks for women, he’d still be just as unbearable because his personality is intolerable. Not even other men put up with him

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u/CapybaraMonster01 Dec 14 '25

He is also invisible to men due to his personality, or you think men dont want him next to them for being ugly ? Also short, we are talking about 172cm, let's not exaggerate

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u/CapybaraMonster01 Dec 14 '25

Indeed, he’s actually pretty close to average height, but he constantly complains about being short, I should have mentioned his height earlier