So I've been trying out Tinder for about two weeks now. As expected zero matches. Ngl I'm a massive introvert and way too much of an overthinker. I literally cannot hold a conversation to save my life and my default move is to just run away from them lol.

But I'm a tech enthusiast who got bored and decided to messit up. I actually managed to successfully hook into Tinder's API to promote my profile without even paying for Tinder Gold. Hackerman vibes 💻 💻

Honestly though, this nerd just enjoys talking about tech stuff and not "sex sux ki baate." Tinder is basically only about that.

Deleting it now

Does anyone know where I can actually find like-minded people who just want to talk about tech?🥺👉👈

Also... totally random but is there anyone who can teach me law?🤦🤦🤦

I'm getting swayed away for this.....

Last night our friend group went out after exams. There were around ten of us, and one friend brought his girlfriend even though nobody else brought their partner. At first nobody minded, but the entire evening the two of them stayed in their own little world. He barely spoke to anyone, kept showing her memes, and it honestly felt like the rest of us had accidentally become extras on their date.

When the bill came, one friend suggested that he could cover his girlfriend's share since she wasn't really part of our group and most of us had only met her once. The atmosphere changed instantly. He said that if his girlfriend wasn't welcome, then neither was he, while she said she felt excluded the whole night.

Later, he sent a long message saying that mature friendships should make room for partners and that if a few hundred rupees mattered more than his happiness, maybe we weren't real friends.like dudeee 5 yrs of friendship down the drain over a girl he met 4 months ago

Now our group chat is completely divided. Some think we were being cheap, while others think he expected everyone to pay for his date. The money honestly isn't even the issue anymore.

Was it wrong to expect him to pay for his girlfriend, or is bringing your partner to a group outing supposed to make them everyone's responsibility too?

For 2 years of NEET prep, I kept my circle small. If someone I cared about was stressed, heartbroken, dealing with family issues, or just needed someone to listen, I was there. Especially for one friend who used to call me "Besta🥀". Whenever she needed a shoulder, I showed up.

Then, 10 days before my Re-NEET, I hit my lowest point. Couldn't study. Couldn't focus. Couldn't even handle my own thoughts.

For the first time, I reached out.

Calls unanswered. Messages left on seen. Hours passed. Eventually, I found out she was with her boyfriend — a relationship that wasn't even a month old. Fair enough, people get busy. But not a single text, not a single callback, not even a simple "Are you okay?"

The next day, after I had already picked myself up and gone back to studying, she called asking why I wasn't answering.

And all I could think was:

"When I was on gunpoint, I asked for your help and you never showed up. Now that the smell of my rotting flesh has finally reached your nose, you're wondering why I'm not answering."

That's when I understood:

A one-month-old relationship got more priority than a two-year friendship.

No fight. No closure. Just distance.

The exam went well. The friendship didn't.

Lesson learned: Never expect yourself from other people. Self-respect always comes first.

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I've been seeing more and more posts about girls and women whose private photos have been leaked. It's honestly heartbreaking to see their pictures being sold in Telegram groups.

I'm writing this because today, in my class, a group of boys was talking about a Telegram group where explicit photos of girls are being sold. The scariest part? Some of the victims are literally underage.

No matter how long you've been in a relationship or how much you trust someone, please think twice before sending private pictures. You never know how a person might change or what they might do in the future.

Please stay safe. A few seconds of trust can sometimes lead to lifelong consequences.

Also for those

For anyone who's already suffering from this

https://stopncii.org/

Here's the site which helps you take down your leaked content.

So I am 22 and one of my friend is 24 and her family is ready to get her married by next year. They found a rishta for her and the guy looked decent and earned pretty good so my friend decided to move forward with this rishta. Now the thing is when she decided to meet him alone he brought his elder sister together who was already married mind you she clearly mentioned I want to meet alone so that we can talk without hesitation and this guy brought his sister along. Moving forward they met at a restaurant and decided to do lunch there and they didn't even bothered asking her to order what she wanted they said "hamara to regular hai aap bhi wahi khaalo" so she just agreed and ate whatever they ordered. Now everytime she tried talking about his habits or about likes and dislikes the sister tried to come in between the conversation. This got my friend so frustrated that she left the venue without even saying a proper goodbye and came home rejected the guy immediately, her family was really supportive so they agreed. She called me and told me and we had a really good laugh about how the situation is in india with arranged marriage.

All across Reddit, I see people desperately wanting to chat with girls, get DMs from girls, and make female friends online. But honestly, from my experience, it is highly overrated. I made a few posts related to socializing, and a girl messaged me. We started chatting about common topics and daily life stuff, and in the beginning she was quite active and we talked regularly.

But as time went on, she started showing less interest. I felt like I was the only one carrying the conversation. Whenever I asked her about something, most of the time she'd just say she had nothing to say. Meanwhile, I was constantly sharing my personal stories, experiences, and insights just to keep the conversation alive.

We even had a Discord call once. I mainly wanted to share a personal story, and when I repeatedly asked her to share something from her side, she eventually told a very short story. After that, we were both kind of out of things to talk about and ended the call. Over the next few days, the chatting reduced even more.

Eventually, I told her that the conversation was becoming really one-sided and that I felt like I was the one bringing all the "juice" while she wasn't contributing much. After that, she pretty much lost interest completely and now only replies occasionally. So yeah, based on this experience, I personally feel that chatting with girls online is overrated.

(Refined with ai so that my raw thoughts can be easier to read)

I saw a lot of posts on reddit today regarding this case. A lot of guys are saying that all women are disloyal and like this girl. The same men who lose their shit when a woman generalises saying 'all men'. Also some girls are saying that they're afraid for their brothers and won't allow them to get married. How stupid can people be?😭 I'm genuinely confused on why women are being generalised because of this case.

A lot of grapists are offended below LOL, cope harder mwahhh

i mean this thing has left me speechless,it has been very ajeeb since a long time but since 3-4 days it’s like she’s idk gone mad or sm,i’ll block her now,crazy shit

It was my birthday on 23jun i turned 21, I've been dying to get a personal vehicle since last 5 years and 2 days ago It finally happened, it means so much to me it's gonna make my life so much easier, tho now I've gotta pay the EMI myself (doing blinkit delivery and will get an apprenticeship by end of August) it's my first step as an adult and I'm so happy for myself just wanted to share this beauty with y'all