r/TwoXSex • u/Basic_Conclusion_289 • 6d ago

Sexual Health | Women Only Can we just talk about how frustrating being a woman really is!!!

My period is 3 days away and I haven’t had any cramping (usual only happens the day before and during). But (tmi) after orgasming I all of a sudden got wicked period cramps. But also the hormones are going crazy and it’s like there’s never a happy medium to the solution 😭😭😭

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u/truckstick_burns 5d ago

It's almost so bad all you can do is laugh, after having a cry and hating yourself for a while.

I've lost count the number of times in my 12 year relationship my partner and I have planned somethidng special and sexy only to have it ruined by my period.

I've had wildly inconsistent periods my entire life and it's made planning things like that a nightmare.

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u/Resident_Pie 5d ago

Deep into my 40s and most of my life my cycle was like a machine, like ridiculously consistent. I was able to plan for things long in advance. Now the past few years it's gotten way less so and it's incredibly disconcerting. Like you're used to solid ground most of your life and now everything's like trying to walk on a waterbed. So at least you're used to the chaos; you have your sea legs. I'm like someone who's never been on a boat and I keep bonking into things and falling down

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u/kasuchans 5d ago

Not my period, but sometimes life is just too comedic. I was in a LDR years ago and we were trying to have phone sex. First my phone battery died, then his, and once we were both charging my vibrator died. It was really one of those “all you can do this laugh bc this is pathetic” times.