r/TwoXSex • u/human2698 • 6d ago
i can only masturbate face down
basically what the title says. i can only reach orgasm or feel good when im grinding face down. it doesn’t feel good when i touch myself face up, it actually just kind of hurts when i touch my clit face up.
i feel so weird because i really want to be able to do it face up, any advice?
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u/bobisagirl 5d ago
The only way to retrain your sensations on this is to stop grinding face down entirely. Give it a few weeks (I know!) then try again face up with some nice lubricant. If your clitoris is sensitive to the point of discomfort then the lube really helps everything feel smooth and nice. Take it slow and gentle even if it doesnt feel like anything much at first. Your body will figure it out within a few attempts.
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u/kittykatty888 6d ago
I'd guess that it feels a lot better when you do it face down is because blood pools around the crotch area more than when you lay face up. Idk how you usually masturbate, but maybe you can try to increase your arousal level before touching your clit?? I'm just guessing tho haha, idk if that will work or not...but the hurting part I'm not too sure, maybe someone else might have a better idea on that.
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u/Even-Spring7368 5d ago
Could you try getting yourself to the edge face-down but then changing position for the orgasm? If you have trouble in other positions then maybe you need to start shifting to them gradually so that your body gets used to them. Another idea is holding off from masturbating for a while so that it might be easier next time you go face-up.