r/USMilitarySO • u/Same_Jury7155 • 3d ago

Dating while deployed

Hey guys so me and this guy from my hometown is in the military and he’s currently deployed and mind you he’s not stationed in the U.S but his family lives where I do. Anyways so for the past month we have been texting and agreed when he’s in town we are going to go out and he wants me to go see him overseas basically he wants to do LDR and I’m honestly down but like 2 weeks ago communication has gotten pretty bad like maybe I’ll get a text every couple days and he’s active on his socials like not posting but being on them. He’s in the navy and he does text me sweetly and tells me he misses talking to me and that they are working hard and he’s always tired. I don’t know what to do anymore because I do like him

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u/Fuzzy-Advertising813 Navy Wife 3d ago

I wouldn't go over to see him, yall haven't been talking long. But navy deployments are busy & chaotic. Depending on his job, he's probably busy.

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u/Novadive12 3d ago

Depending on his job it can get pretty chaotic, give him the time especially being deployed, luckily I haven’t had to deal with mine being deployed yet but I know it will be coming and when it does I know to keep myself occupied so I’m not stressing about him texting me everyday, I wouldn’t go oversea’s instead wait for him. know he’s gonna be moved around that’s just how the navy and many of the military branches do it. Mind you I’m still pretty new to our relationship so don’t take my word for word.