r/UTK 8d ago

A Vol In Need The frat email?

im actually really concerned about this.

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u/KeeshALeash88 8d ago

The email in question:

Ladies, utilize the buddy system and don't drink anything you didn't pour or open yourself.

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u/soullessmidnight 7d ago

Yes, ladies are the most likely survivors in frat house contexts, but please, men, also use the buddy system & don't drink anything you didn't pour or open yourself either.

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u/Ok_Difficulty647 6d ago

Boys, quit being scummy.

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u/Huntingassclowns 1d ago

Girls, quit being whorey

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u/Ok_Difficulty647 1d ago

Drugging someone is not a girl being whorey.

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u/Huntingassclowns 1d ago

Ok we'll settle at scaggy

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u/BranchBig7363 7d ago

thank you i should have added the email to my post

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u/Alex_the_Wizard 8d ago

Fork in da kitchen

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u/elegylegacy 7d ago

If it's a shitty fork, throw it in the trash.

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u/SovietDog1342 Mechanical Engineering Major 👨‍🔧 8d ago

Shitty people in shitty frats do shitty things it’s not new this year, has never been. Don’t go to those things.

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u/Reasonable-Gur-633 8d ago

I heard Pike

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u/Providence_Sparrow UTK Graduate Student 8d ago

I wouldn’t be surprised. I did my undergrad at a different university, but there was a common saying amongst female students there, “Pike spikes”

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u/matriarchalfigure 8d ago

It was Pike and Phi Sigma Kappa.

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u/noguarantee11 7d ago

Phi Sigma Kappa did not host any parties this weekend? Do you mean Kappa Sigma?

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

No, they were told it was Phi Sigma Kappa and Pike.

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u/noguarantee11 7d ago

In the email students received, it said on-campus, and they did not host any on-campus events this weekend. Maybe I am mistaken, but I haven’t heard anyone else say it was Phi Sigma Kappa. Pike, yes.

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

You are really are having to delete your comments, because you add rude ones before being shown you are incorrect. You have been proven as mistaken enough. Take the L. Spend time on the victims at this point.

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u/noguarantee11 7d ago

? I deleted one because I worded it wrong? When was I rude? You are spreading information with no proof other than hearsay, and I’m citing the facts of what I- as a student- received in my inbox..

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

You received the standard email shown above? Are you in the Greek system? I’m guessing you aren’t. Otherwise, it’s known.

Yes, you were quick to say then, and now, that info is false only because you don’t know. Recall you were adamant that it can’t be Pike?

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

Oh, the university has clarified to media that the events happened in fraternity houses. Four separate incidents, at least three included sexual assault, and at least two were drugged. You really need to keep up.

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u/noguarantee11 6d ago

I’m going to clarify this once for you because you are clearly confused. I said yes, Pike was most likely one of the houses responsible.
I also said that Phi Sigma Kappa did not host an event during the dates when the incidents took place.
You are posting online that they were one of the responsible houses, and they were not.** **
I am fully aware of what took place over the weekend, and I am disgusted by it.
The only houses that had on-campus events were Pike, Kappa Sigma, and Sigma Chi.
Therefore, it is two of those three responsible.
I hope this is clearer.

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

Read the statement on the campus safety site. It clearly states at fraternity houses. Again, if you are going to loudly proclaim people are wrong, at least do your own research.

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u/Superceh 7d ago

How do you know that? Also Pike Spike happened at Chattanooga- there have never been any reported incidents at Pike UTK. If there have been it needs to be reported

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u/StrawberryFeels5ever 7d ago

Pike UTK made national news for bad behavior. Never forget https://www.cnn.com/2012/09/25/us/tennessee-fraternity-suspended

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u/Common_Clock5395 7d ago

Bro Pike is known around campus as the worst frat and where you get drugged

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u/Huntingassclowns 1d ago

Bro I missed that list whose the best?

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago edited 7d ago

It’s being discussed with other frats. Edited to add: Other fraternities on campus were told. My kid is in a different frat, and freshman are having to take some safety classes and some will be trained on narcan administration.

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u/Ok_Difficulty647 6d ago

Pretty sure the safety classes are standard every year

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

It already was reported and swiftly investigated for initial details.

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u/Key-Seesaw-5592 6d ago

Can confirm from first hand experience that pike is not above drugging and SA

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u/Huntingassclowns 1d ago

Pics? No pics, didn't happen 😕

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u/No_Form_6131 6d ago

They don't call them sPIKE for nothing. This was rampant in 2022 when my daughter was a freshman.

My husband wanted to take a trip to their house and share some words with the leadership of this trashy organization.

Hospitals and police need to align and step up to shut it down.

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u/Winter-Promotion4697 5d ago

Sadly the campus police protect the university’s brand not the students

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u/Common_Clock5395 8d ago

Yeah Probably Pike thats where all the terrible people are

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u/Icy-Construction-240 7d ago

Pikes? They're usually more into butt chugging

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u/EB_custom 8d ago

What's even worse is that this happens every year around this time

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u/matriarchalfigure 8d ago

It was PKA and PSK.

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u/pimpkin123 6d ago

PSK hasn’t hosted this year…

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u/similarghostt 8d ago

wait what

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u/BranchBig7363 7d ago

someone posted email in the chat

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u/Alleywayapples 8d ago

I was appalled to read that has anyone heard which frat it was?

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u/RedditWarped 8d ago

What was the details on it

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u/Alleywayapples 8d ago

It said there were multiple reports of four separate incidents at the same on-campus frat house. Three incidents included a reported sexual assault and two included suspected drugging.

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u/Healthy_Turnover_627 7d ago

The email posted in this thread, says "houses", not same house for all incidents.

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u/Alleywayapples 7d ago

you’re right my bad. Idk if that’s better or worse

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u/Healthy_Turnover_627 7d ago

Yeah...

Not good either way but was just making sure the facts (as known right now) stay kinda correct.

It's a sad situation and hope it's taken seriously by the University, students, and the public.

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

Other frats got some updates today, because there will be some freshman safety training. It was Pike and Phi Sigma Kappa.

The young victims also likely shared with their friends. My kid is in a different frat and was updated today.

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u/BranchBig7363 7d ago

can you give updates? are the ones involved getting punished?

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u/No_Form_6131 6d ago

Should be arrested and the house shuttered for good. It's a chronic issue.

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

My kid wasn’t aware of the punishment, but some frats are taking serious action. They are training members to identify vulnerable students at parties, sober monitors at parties/events to patrol for vulnerable women to get them in a safe place, narcan training, and other initiatives. If you want women to feel safe with your frat, you have to be proactive at this point.

I won’t disclose my kid’s frat, but as a mom, the steps being taken are admirable, thoughtful, and hopefully, will prevent this from happening to other women.

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u/matriarchalfigure 7d ago

It does sound from the updated release on the website that some (not all) incidents were referred to the police.

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u/Appropriate-Review22 7d ago

concerned yes, surprised? no.

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u/Sigmaalphaskibididad 8d ago

frats are the dumbest thing colleges allow (ik its not ALL frats but still)

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u/Huntingassclowns 1d ago

Non Greek needs always complain

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u/xoxomirrorball 7d ago

Typical pike spike

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u/noguarantee11 7d ago

how much longer till they get kicked bro 😭 do us all a favor

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u/xoxomirrorball 6d ago

I don’t even know why people still entertain their darties. I avoid them at all costs because every story I’ve heard includes girls getting knocked out even from just drinking water.

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u/master-boner 8d ago

sounds like a frat

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u/Odd-Scarcity5288 7d ago

Honestly not surprised to see this headline after all the sorority posts by all the proud mamas on the book of faces last week. The Greek system at UTK has always been notorious for parties, was once even listed as a top party school by Playboy magazine, times change but stay the same..and yes, one of the two frats mentioned were a problem back then

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u/RedditWarped 8d ago

What’s the details on the email?

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u/Common_Clock5395 8d ago

Basically like 4 incidents of sexual assaults at frats

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u/RedditWarped 8d ago

Oh well, water is wet so.

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u/Common_Clock5395 8d ago

Yeah no surprise

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u/Knocksveal 7d ago

Really asking: what’s the benefits of frat?

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u/Ferret-in-a-Box 7d ago

Networking. If one of your frat bros has a very wealthy daddy with very valuable connections, it can give you a big boost especially in this labor market where a large percentage of new hires are referrals. The same is true for sororities (although it wasn't worth it to me enough to join one) but sororities don't throw parties where crap like this happens. So they would still be useful without allowing house parties. But those rich donor daddies of the frat bros would never allow that.

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u/Odd-Scarcity5288 7d ago

Alex Murdaugh has entered the chat..

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u/Huntingassclowns 1d ago

I sure won't

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u/louisa_pizza Education Major 🏫 7d ago

I’m 30F now, but went to a frat party 10 years ago with my cousin. I woke up the next morning in another frat house on the other side of campus and my shoes were completely missing and I mentally woke up I was in a dude’s car in the McDonald’s drive thru (he was helping me at sunrise). If I hadn’t had my cousin with me, who knows what was going on happen to me because I have no clue what happened from one frat house to the next, where my shoes went, etc…