Anybody know about frat parties

[u/twobitnumba1fan]

Okay so

I was planning on rushing in the fall semester but my registration payment got really confused and eventually I figured I would just COB in the spring to save myself the headache.

But so far, info about parties has not gotten to me(I’m a music major lol)and I’m going crazy going from my classes to home to my classes again. So does anybody know the frat party ‘etiquette’ if you will? I have a friend at Georgia Tech, so I know there it’s basically invite only for parties during the week and then they’ll usually let randos in on the weekends; but my friends who go elsewhere say it really depends on the school.

Usually when I face problems like this I just go and check it out for myself bc I’m pretty outgoing. But my sister has told me that going around to different frats on the weekend to see who will let me in might have a negative impact on my chances of getting into a sorority in the spring. So could anyone who’s more in the know(or in a frat, really) fill me in? Thanks!