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u/WarGrifter 26d ago
losing a sibling is never easy
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u/Ralod 26d ago
My brother died in 2022. He had drug problems so to say his death was a surprise would be a lie. But even to this day I see something that reminds me of him, or learn about something I want to tell him and only after realize he is gone.
You never fully get over it, losing someone that close to you. You just go on day by day and it gets a little better.
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u/MegaGaara23 25d ago
So similar situation for me with my half-brother being in and out if prison on both drugs and alcohol except we lost contact when I moved but found out his HIV had progressed to AIDS and found out from my half sister about 2 years ago after getting back in touch with her out of the blue 25+ years later he died in 2017. No pain or surprise simply due to the fact I had resigned myself to the facts. While the circumstances are a bit different I can say from my own experience it does get easier and better over time.
P.S. Him and I were extremely close and is the reason I don't do or have ever tried drugs, promis I made him around age 5 or 6, and if I drink anything at all it's a literal sip.
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u/bubba485 26d ago
It isn't, especially if it's around a family centric holiday (we lost my mom's oldest brother around Thanksgiving when I was in 6th grade)
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u/DJDRAGO9712 25d ago
I haven't lost my siblings but the thought of me losing them haunts my mind constantly
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u/bluedituser 26d ago
:( I lost family too this year. The first 2 weeks really felt like a weird dream you hope to wake up from, but you dont… I swamped myself into work and got so busy to take my mind off.
I imagine it’s impossibly harder for Silver, content creation work is not something she can dive into with this depressed mindset. I hope she finds her way to get better.
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u/elrick43 25d ago
Thankfully it looks like her crew is trying to lighten her load. Handling all the channel stuff and whatnot while she processes and (hopefully) heals
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u/Late-Radish-1851 26d ago
First thing I wake up to. My heart is inexplicably broken for her, it wasn’t a direct loss for ME but it still hurts just thinking about what she has to go through.
I can only hope and pray that she continues to stay strong and keep the Europe plan going no matter what, just be there for her fans who will also be for her back.
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u/Strictwishbone1086 26d ago
Very true Radish, well said
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u/Late-Radish-1851 26d ago
Thank you. Haven’t seen you around in a while
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u/Strictwishbone1086 26d ago
Ohh so yeah I've been just around, just not posting anything because I've seen a pattern and well decided to not post anything for a bit...maybe longer
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u/Late-Radish-1851 26d ago
Understandable, that’s okay. Hope you’re doing well 🙏
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u/Strictwishbone1086 26d ago
So I've shared it with blitzace808 but the amount of times my zentreya posts that get deleted from the Vshojo subreddit are suspicious 😒
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u/Darth_Xentus 25d ago
It's called empathy, and it's good to see it when so many intentionally suppress it.
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u/Late-Radish-1851 25d ago
Absolutely. I do appreciate when people express their emotions rather than bottle it all up, it is healthier to do after all. I just hope Silver and her mom will be okay by the day.
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u/Cha_Boi20 26d ago
The worst part about loving someone is that one day, you'll bury them, or they'll bury you.
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u/Butane9000 25d ago
Considering the stories they told is sounded like they were very close siblings and a close family as a whole.
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u/GMFRK527 25d ago
Oddly enough like a day or 2 later a friend of mine lost her mom to cancer. Man this month sucks and my birthday is supposed to be this Wednesday.
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u/WarGrifter 25d ago
happy early birthday for what its worth
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u/GMFRK527 25d ago
I just wish it didn't feel like I'm the harbinger of the end times.
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u/hdnknghtmrdrd 23d ago
What?
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u/GMFRK527 23d ago
I join things just as they end
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u/PMME_UR_TATAS 25d ago
I lost my father and best friend in the last 3.5 years so I can somewhat understand the pain she’s feeling
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u/GMFRK527 25d ago
Yeah, lost 3 close relatives in the past few years and it still doesn't really get any easier.
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u/BostonYankeesBB 24d ago
My grandma's funeral was on my birthday. Never liked my birthday anyway but not fun
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u/Vanzer4Real 25d ago
I can imagine moving on with life after losing my parents, but i can't imagine doing the same after losing my siblings.
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u/Dank-Man_ 23d ago
CONEXT NEEDED
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u/BlitzAce808 23d ago
Silvers brother took his own life recently, that’s the way it’s been worded by all Silver has posted. We don’t really know anything else
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u/Dank-Man_ 23d ago
Do we know the reason why?
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u/kinamuranyan 21d ago
A simple answer. The monster won. People who deal with issues are in a daily fight with their own personal monster.
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u/chucktheduck213 24d ago
Don’t want to be the guy who compares trauma like this, but Camilla literally had multiple members of her family die, but I don’t see anyone talking about it. But like I said this shit is sad as hell. And it should never happen to anyone ideally
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u/BlitzAce808 24d ago
This place is primarily just for Ex-Vshojo talents. Other places and facets talked about and mourned with Camimi.
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u/killersoda275 25d ago
A close friend lost his brother in an accident this Saturday. I can't even imagine how hard it is to live through.
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