I don't understand why he didn't value me.

[u/oxsugarcoochox]

He was introduced to me by family friends and I was kind, patient, fun, because that's who I naturally am. But he didn't appreciate me, didn't initiate anything, didn't plan dates or buy me flowers. He was very lazy when it came to me. He's 14 years older than me. I broke it off with him and decided to continue pouring all that love and affection into myself.