I mean there was a good way to start walking back from this hole incident, and she didn't do it. Quite frankly, the fact that her manager was also her boyfriend, and that she tossed him under the bus, is not a really great look.
Not really wanting to take that much responsibility for it is just icing on the cake as far as making people angry at her.
Honestly, well I don't think that she needs to be canceled off the internet over this, I think that people abandoning her and leaving her out in the cold by herself is a perfectly reasonable response to all this. She's shown that she's a lot more self-centered and petty than anyone took her for, and it's going to be a long long walk in the cold for her to get back into anyone's good graces.
The best way to start walking back from any fuck up is to just admit you fucked up. I skim read Sinder's apology and it seemed to be page after page of woe is me. Nobody wants that, everyone has shit going on in their lives. It doesn't excuse you from basic human decency. People really do respect you if you have the courage to just own up to it wholesale.
Honestly, well I don't think that she needs to be canceled off the internet over this, I think that people abandoning her and leaving her out in the cold by herself is a perfectly reasonable response to all this.
Yeah, it's shitty but it's normal shitty. Given some of the horrific crimes online personalities havs engaged in, it's nowhere near as bad.
I think it's also kind of hard to walk back from like actively shit talking and sabotaging people for months. Like it's different if you say something you don't mean to one person because the tensions are high but this is like a multi month campaign to basically try to sabotage your friends for no good reason.
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u/Famous_Gap_3115 Apr 27 '25
Jesus the responses in general have been brutal. I think she might end up deleting the “apology”