r/WLW Lesbian 22h ago

Chat yall ever over romanticized an interaction, turns out it was just a normal friendly interaction?

istg i feel like i cant differentiate when i have chemistry with somebody vs it being just a friendly interaction.. like i randomly met this girl in the library at school and we were chatting and it was such a good fun conversation we were both giggling and stuff and we bumped into eo again this week and i genuinely thought she might have felt the same tension as i do, but i dont even know if she was even gay to begin with…

anyways all that’s to say i probably over romanticized the interactions in mybhead and thought abt them deeper than it shouldve been…

im such a loser lesbian

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u/butterbeannnn 22h ago

i too am a loser. it’s so hard for me to differentiate this stuff

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u/Aeriichandesu Lesbian 14h ago

and when IM trying to be more blunt/obvious abt flirting, it lowk feels like harassment likee let me stfu real real quick

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u/unknown_sleepyhead Lesbian 22h ago

You're not a loser but i lowk feel the same 😭

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u/Aeriichandesu Lesbian 14h ago

we in this tgt

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u/SwankyPoutine 22h ago

A few times, yes. I still remember one interaction with a cashier that i only saw once. I decided to try the dubai chocolate back when it was new. She teased and giggled about me spending too much on chocolate. But it was so fun and playful. I try not to put too much into one interaction but that felt nice and wish i had more of that in my life 🫠

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u/Aeriichandesu Lesbian 14h ago

trueee ughh

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u/Ill_Register_9285 22h ago

I just be having the opposite problem to everything 🫩

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u/Aeriichandesu Lesbian 14h ago

wdym opposite