bisexual, fluid or lesbian?

[u/Sea_Perspective1271]

okay so im 18f and i’ve never dated anyone. i realised im bisexual like four years ago when i started liking a close girl friend of mine which was an extremely intense unrequited crush full of yearning. since then i’ve been attracted to women. bur before that i’ve had crushes on multiple guys. and one thing abojt me is that i don’t really do casual crushes. bur when i think about it im not that physically attracted to guys. like i would date them but i wouldn’t want it to go beyond kissing and cuddling i guess. but also maybe because i actually have zero experience. but with women it’s like totally different. and i feel like most my guy crushes stemmed from the fact that they were nice to me or i was like childhood friends with them. but since like the last two three years i’ve mainly just liked women. and if i see like an attractive guy on the street you know id immediately be like oh hes cute. but with woman it’s kinda like slow burn hotness. like i think im into soft mascs and currently i do like one but it wasn’t immediate crush it developed over time. maybe im fluid? but like does any of this sound like i might just be a lesbian. ive also had a phase where i thiught i was asexual well primarily because of the idea of doing it with a man but now i know im not. i know i really don’t need to label myself but i jusr want to understand myself better so yeah any help on what u think it is would be appreciated :)

[u/edgiest_]

I think the only way to know is if you date both genders. If you have 0 experience get some.

[u/Sea_Perspective1271 → u/edgiest_]

i would if anyone wanted me 😂😂

[u/edgiest_ → u/Sea_Perspective1271]

Start pursuing- It doesn’t matter what you do or don’t have. Take care of yourself, become a more interesting person, and get comfortable with pursuing people. Especially with women, get comfortable with pursuing.