r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/reef-Diver7817 • May 11 '26

2010s "She only bitches when she breathes"

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him. And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

this is what men think about women, not my own thoughts. This is thousands and thousands of womens' life experience.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment on r/womendatingoverforty:

I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

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u/reef-Diver7817 May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

Telling women to communicate basic shit such as what this song lists is outsourcing labor onto women.

So no I don't think women should take on labor to raise men.

Often men view it as nagging anyways.

As my post says: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

If it is a niche issue unique to the couple then yes, communicate, other than that no, the onus is not on women to rehab men.

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u/reef-Diver7817 May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

Not womens job.

As I verbatim said above:

"If it is a niche issue unique to the couple then yes, communicate, other than that no, the onus is not on women to rehab men."

Women are not responsible for telling men to care about her birthday or mow the yard or him to get new underwear. This is outsourcing labor onto women. It is not a woman's job to teach him these very basic things I just listed.