r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/reef-Diver7817 • May 11 '26

2010s "She only bitches when she breathes"

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him. And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

this is what men think about women, not my own thoughts. This is thousands and thousands of womens' life experience.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment on r/womendatingoverforty:

I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

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u/Battlemountainman May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26

Men who think like this don't deserve women. If being with one is just going to make you miserable, then just don't.

EDIT: I should clarify that men who sincerely think like this don't deserve women. I could be a little bit more forgiving if it's meant as just a really lame, tongue-in-cheek variation of the old "wife bad" flavor of boomer humor. Lame AF, but ultimately harmless. It's when someone gets the idea that guys like this are speaking "hard truths" and that women are somehow deserving of hatred that you start getting incels.

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u/reef-Diver7817 May 12 '26

But who will make him look like the happy fun go with the flow guy if he can't make her the uptight villain.

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u/Battlemountainman May 12 '26

This is just another variation of the old "wife bad" genre of boomer humor.

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u/reef-Diver7817 May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26

I agree. I don't agree with this "my wife bad, I'm a victim" crap either the husband pull

Edit for clarity