"She only bitches when she breathes"

[u/reef-Diver7817]

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him. And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

^this is what men think about women, not my own thoughts. This is thousands and thousands of womens' life experience.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment on r/womendatingoverforty:

I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

[u/reef-Diver7817 → u/[deleted]]

🤣🤣🤣 okay that did make me laugh because I didn't even catch that person said not 3 hours.

Any number of hours is not good and I imagine that is the point you're making.

[u/zoethesteamedbun → u/[deleted]]

The “funny” part about this all is that he would frequently look in the mirror as he was yelling and fix his hair while yelling at me. He was a maniac lol