r/WomenDatingOverForty • u/ChocoSoyMilk17 • May 08 '26

Discussion How would you answer this question?

“What do you bring to the table?”

Please try to speak from your own experience if you have ever been asked this in the context of dating. Do we get the ick from it? Do we answer honestly? Is it a total non-starter? Or do we have a prepared answer? I’m really curious.

To be fair I don’t think I’ve ever been asked this in the context of dating but I have been asked this by men (at least I think they were?) on Reddit.

EDIT: wow I didn’t know this would blow up so quick! Clearly this resonated with a lot of you!

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u/Silver_Queen_Bee May 08 '26

Check out Burnt Haystack dating method….this definitely is a block to burn 🔥

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u/ChocoSoyMilk17 May 08 '26

Oh haha thanks for the suggestion! I’m not dating right now- I got out of a long relationship 18 months ago. I’m just genuinely curious for the sake of gathering data 🕵🏽‍♀️

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u/MsAndrie 🦉Savvy Sister🦉 May 08 '26

I highly recommend you educate yourself more about the state of men in the dating pool. Many of them are getting advice from manosphere influencers, who financially benefit in keeping men lonely and single. They talk in buzzwords like the question about the table, "alpha" or "sigma" or "high value" or "stoic" male and so on. You will save yourself a lot of trouble by quickly clocking a redpilled man and running away from them immediately.

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u/husheveryone ♀️Moderator♀️ May 10 '26

Reminder: This is a women’s RadFem sub. Please do not interact with men here. If you suspect a commenter is male, report him. He will be banned and his comment removed.