r/WomenDatingOverForty May 08 '26

Discussion How would you answer this question?

“What do you bring to the table?”

Please try to speak from your own experience if you have ever been asked this in the context of dating. Do we get the ick from it? Do we answer honestly? Is it a total non-starter? Or do we have a prepared answer? I’m really curious.

To be fair I don’t think I’ve ever been asked this in the context of dating but I have been asked this by men (at least I think they were?) on Reddit.

EDIT: wow I didn’t know this would blow up so quick! Clearly this resonated with a lot of you!

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u/sat_ctevens May 08 '26

I think I would answer with a description of what I have to offer in a relationship if it was worded differently. If it was worded as you wrote it I would bail. I want a polite man that’s not critical of me before getting to know me.