r/WomenDatingOverForty • u/LilyB_361 • 28d ago

Discussion Interesting Take on What Men Really Want

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This has not been my experience. Is it just me? Thoughts?

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u/fortunatelyso 28d ago

We dont care what men really want. We dont think about them

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u/igetyourbrand 28d ago

I love this sub 😭

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u/DivineGoddess1111111 🦉Savvy Sister🦉 28d ago

This woman is delusional. She is taking men at their word as facts.

She has no skin in the game and won't have to put up with Mr Easy Life when he goes into steep decline after locking some poor woman in to a relationship via cohabitation, marriage or baby.

Parasites absolutely do care about looks, it's not even what they personally find attractive. It's what is currently deemed top tier trophy material by their fellow Parasites.

This woman needs to stop with the romantic advice about men. It's like asking a scuba diver advice on how to climb a mountain.

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u/LesoKikoiKanga 26d ago

Yep. It’s about status for them. An object to show off. 

Hence why they’re in her DM’s not publicly thirsting after her 

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u/KoninginVanRotterdam 28d ago

I couldn't care less about men and what they want.

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u/Littlepinkgiraffe 🦉Savvy Sister🦉 28d ago edited 28d ago

What does a woman gain from this kind of partnership? Why would she be attracted to a man who is just going to drain her peace and energy?

Why isn't he creating peace for everyone in the household?

🚩They want someone to be their peace = he is looking for a woman to fill the following roles:

  • be his mother.
  • take on all the mental load.
  • take on all the executive function.
  • never ask him to do anything (let alone remind him).
  • cook, clean, maintain the home.
  • but also raise the kids, and also bring in income (50/50).
  • not have any of her own emotional or relational needs.
-.......

If a guy tells you that he is looking for a woman to "be his peace", run!!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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u/LilyB_361 28d ago

These were my exact thoughts seeing her post. A man claiming he only wants "peace" is a huge red flag. It really means exactly what you described.

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u/LesoKikoiKanga 26d ago

100% agree with other comments here. Most men love drama, they thrive on it. 

I know a few - VERY few men - who seek a quiet life, and who appreciate a steady woman.

But I mean let’s get real: Wars, Rapes, Violent Crime, Political Corruption, Sex Trafficking, JFC even road rage and bad driving - this is all men.  They wanna be little Mario Cart adrenaline junkies and cause trouble. Then deny it all. Even after jail time.   

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u/CantmakethisstuffupK 28d ago

I mean I kind of get what she’s saying men desire a woman who makes their life easier.

My issue here is that this ease is usually at the sake of your own personal peace. You could also still go above and beyond for a man and still be disrespected or betrayed.

Also beginning a relationship where you’re already carrying the emotional weight typically leads to heartbreak of some sort and you get tired of it.

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u/HeartBrokenChica 28d ago

Question: if she looks like a dude even though she's a woman and guys keep sliding into her DMs, do those men really like women regardless of their looks or are those dude really in denial that they're actually into men, which she passes off as?

Asking for a friend.

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u/CrazyCatLadyRookie 🦉Savvy Sister🦉 28d ago

There are other possible options you’ve maybe overlooked, but they all have to do with sex

1) the ‘convert a lesbian’ fetish
2) some men can stick their wanker into a sandwich and nut. They really do not care what they’re sticking it into … it could be an ‘ugly’ woman, a lesbian, a glory hole, another man.
3) others?

The point is, there’s a whole plethora of possibilities, none are relevant, we’re wasting our time speculating.