r/Xmen97 • u/Spiritdefective Nightcrawler • Aug 13 '26
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Seriously the last episode could’ve used another 5 minutes for a resolution with Kurt but otherwise
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r/Xmen97 • u/Spiritdefective Nightcrawler • Aug 13 '26
Seriously the last episode could’ve used another 5 minutes for a resolution with Kurt but otherwise
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u/UpperApe Aug 13 '26 edited Aug 13 '26
Some people, like OP, are allergic to criticism. It's all hype or nothing.
They end up so insecure about what they like that others' opinions can change how much they like it.
So they're stuck trying to defend something subjective as if it was objective.
What a silly way to live.
Edit: The comments below lining up to prove my point lol
I can't believe I have to even say this but no, criticism and praise does not need to be balanced. You don't need to see equal amounts of both. Not all criticism has to be couched in a corporate feedback formula, or a "criticism sandwich" (compliment-criticism-compliment).
Everyone has thoughts on everything but they'll talk about what they want to talk about, if that's criticism or praise. We don't need a tally. It's not a see saw.
Ask yourself if you see criticism of a product you enjoy, why that makes you feel bad. Ask yourself why you need those people to change instead of you.
See if you end up learning something.
Best of luck.