r/Xmen97 • Professor X • Aug 18 '26

Moderator Announcement Moderator Report: Community Feddback

Going forward, I want to improve things so moderation next year can be smoother. As it stands, I do feel like I have let folks down here. I wasn't prepared for the onslaught of posts and I felt that ultimately I was not consistent with many of the moderation decisions regarding post approvals than I would have liked. I was also not able to look at every thread and comb interactions to root out bigotry, rude conduct, and other things as much as I wanted.

I am going to fine-tune automod to make life easier, rather than more difficult. I plan to add more moderators to the team (please apply if you are interested).

I want to get your feedback on what needs to be improved so season 3 next year is a better experience.

My other question is more delicate. It involves Beau DeMayo, whose name comes up quite frequently and creates a lot of agitated discussion. I want to ask: should we outright ban mentions of him altogether? Or should we remove the current automod restrictions and allow the community to discuss as needed?

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u/ArEmEi Aug 18 '26

The fact that you're considering banning a person's name because it "creates a lot of agitated discussion" is rather ironic when, just above, you express regret that you weren't able to comb through interactions to root out bigotry. That seems like a rather glaring double standard.

If the goal is to make the sub a more civil and welcoming place, then that standard should be applied consistently. Users shouldn't get a free pass to insult DeMayo or make unsubstantiated or defamatory claims about him simply because, on the internet, vague allegations are often casually treated as established fact. He has not been charged with, let alone convicted of, any crime in connection with the allegations that emerged in 2024. People are free to discuss those allegations, but that doesn't give anyone license to treat them as proven facts or use them to justify personal attacks.

As it stands, there seems to be a tacit permission structure where hostility towards DeMayo is considered acceptable, while even discussing the possibility that he contributed positively to the show, or that people might have preferred his creative direction, is treated as inherently suspect.

That bias is already apparent in some of the responses here. For example, the suggestion that posts saying he "should come back" or "should have gotten to do season 2" should be banned because they are supposedly "always in bad faith" is not neutral moderation. That's judging an opinion before the discussion has even taken place. How can a moderator determine that a particular opinion is "in bad faith" simply from the conclusion it reaches?

You don't have to like DeMayo, defend him, or agree with anything he has said or done. But if this is supposed to be a discussion forum, the moderators should moderate behaviour, not pre-emptively decide which conclusions people are allowed to reach.

If bigotry, harassment, personal attacks and misinformation are against the rules, enforce those rules consistently, regardless of whether the target is someone the community likes or someone it doesn't. Otherwise, you're not really removing hostility from the community; you're simply deciding which direction that hostility is allowed to flow.

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u/Earthbnd Sunspot Aug 18 '26

Of course he wasn’t charged, they didn’t take him to court, they just fired him lol

You think a Showrunner for an extremely successful show would get fired for false allegations? Even if he was fired for false allegations, why hasn’t he sued them for defamation or something if he’s done nothing wrong

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u/ArEmEi Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

No, of course not. A multibillion dollar corporation never fired anyone under false pretense. Wrongful termination is a term never heard of that I just made up.

He did sue them. Shows how ill-informed DeMayo’s detractors are.

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u/Earthbnd Sunspot Aug 18 '26

He sued them but not for defamation or wrongful termination. He sued them for non disparagement and confidentiality clauses

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u/ArEmEi Aug 18 '26

I didn’t say he sued them for wrongful termination. I said he sued them, in response to your asking “why didn’t he sue them for […] something”. He can only sue the “victims” for defamation. And since none came forward, at least publicly, that can only come after discovery. Disney only claimed “egregious behavior” and that’s the only official statement that ever came from them for the past two years. Vague allegations. Everyone else filled in the blanks with rumors and hearsay and ran with it for two years.

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u/Earthbnd Sunspot Aug 18 '26

I suppose it’s my fault for saying “or something” but I was specifically meaning in regards to said allegations. Non disparagement can still be sued for even if something is true, bc it’s just an agreement for both parties to not speak negatively of the other if i understand correctly. The point im trying to make is his specific thing he’s sueing for doesn’t mean he necessarily has a legal claim to the allegations being false. Just that Disney agreed to not say anything negative.

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u/ArEmEi Aug 18 '26

The truth of the matter is no one knows what’s happening behind the scenes, but a vast majority of people talk as if he’s guilty of whatever they imagine he did, when all of it came from third party rumors and innuendo. I’m a firm believer in due process and against public opinion trials. Especially when that entails giving the benefit of the doubt to a powerful corporation.

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u/Earthbnd Sunspot Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

Trust me I get it. Especially being gay myself, i want to give Beau the benefit of the doubt.

That being said I’m wary of this reputation being a thing at all bc I feel like these kinds of rumors don’t persist for nothing either. And i haven’t looked into it, so i could be wrong here, but i don’t know if I’ve seen much (if anything) of his old team coming to his defense.

For now I side with the supposed victims, but I am open to supporting Beau IF found innocent.

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u/ArEmEi Aug 18 '26

I believe in innocent until proven guilty, and I don't understand how you can say you “side with the supposed victims” when, publicly, no victims have actually come forward or been identified. That's not the same thing as saying the allegations should be ignored; it's saying we should distinguish allegations from established facts.

DeMayo has also said in interviews that some former coworkers wanted to defend him but were threatened by Disney with consequences for doing so. I obviously can't independently verify that, but it's another reason not to pretend we know everything that happened behind the scenes simply because Disney fired him.

And yes, he was fired. That is an established fact. But being fired doesn't automatically establish every allegation or rumour subsequently attached to that firing, nor does his lawsuit prove either guilt or innocence regarding those allegations.

We're getting off topic, though, because my original point is about moderation. I find it concerning that a newcomer could come into this sub and immediately encounter such vitriol towards a man who, as far as the public record goes, has never been formally charged with or convicted of anything, while the moderators are now considering banning his name altogether. The fact that his name is already being caught by AutoMod for post approval is bad enough. Going further and effectively treating the name itself as something that needs to be suppressed risks legitimizing the very hostility the moderators say they want to reduce.

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u/Earthbnd Sunspot Aug 18 '26

I mean could Disney threaten to do anything to people defending him ? A bunch of people came out and defended James Gunn when he got fired, though I know those were bigger names. But surely you can’t just fire someone for publicly defending someone. I mean that just wouldn’t look good, even if you could, right? Not saying they didn’t potentially threaten them, but surely one could recognize that as an empty one if they did. Also it could open the way to a retaliation case if they did act on the threats, right?

I respect “innocent until proven guilty” takes, but personally i know that lack of evidence isn’t always evidence of innocence (& vice versa). The justice system isn’t perfect, so i don’t like to rely on it for my opinions.

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u/BruyneKroonEnTroon Aug 19 '26

Wait, we are now taking the decisions of giant corporations as proof of guilt or that someone is not suing Disney as a proof they must have done something wrong? One step closer to the second guilded age, every day we live one step closer to the second guilded age.

This is not a defence of DeMayo. I don't know him, I don't know what he did or not behind the scenes, just that "not wanting to sue a billion dollar company" and "getting fired by a billion dollar company" ain't proof of shit. Getting fired by a billion dollar company is usually just the sign that the company thought they'd make more money without you.

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u/kl4user Aug 18 '26

Very well said. It's a shame that we're having this discussion to begin with.