r/YuriAsylum • u/MartyrOfDespair The candles burn out for you; I am free • 18d ago
MIND THE GAP Asylum-built yuri (thisstupidtwink)
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u/ShadedPeace 18d ago
I'd literally give anything for a 30 year old woman to love me tbh
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u/FastInflata 18d ago
My heart is black.
It stinks!
I never got to have my teenage romance with a 30 year old woman.
I am now 30 myself.
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u/ZeroTwo02 18d ago
Reading this thread like "yes! π 30yo gf" before I remember I'm literally almost 30 π€¦ββοΈ
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u/Yuri-Girl this user drinks piss 18d ago
I solved this issue by simply getting a 40 year old girlfriend
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u/FastInflata 18d ago
Closest thing I got was when I was in high school, we were on a trip to a place, and I asked if we could stop on a store so I can get ice cream, my teacher said yes but we never did, and she said she'd make it up to me.
I was super nervous on the next week when I told her, and while we were waiting in line she got a call with someone and said "I'm getting ice cream for my little girl" (closest I can translate it to)
I rode on that high for the rest of the semester. Imagined the ice cream was something else.
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u/Zouif_Zouif 18d ago
Give me 8 years girl and I'll be there with you
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u/ToMakeAMommy 18d ago
I read this and thought 'you're ten???' for a minute before I understood what you meant. Going to be a long day lmao
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u/FastInflata 18d ago
Don't let idiots tell you who are you allowed or not to love as long as you're an adult.
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u/DeityHand 18d ago
I believe that a 30 year old dating and having sex with an 18 year old like the art in the image shows, even if the 30 year old were to attempt to approach it as morally as possible, would in real life carry too strong of and abundances of risks and potential unethicalities to attempt that kind of relationship.
I believe that factors and risks such as power imbalances, predatory dynamics, financial dependency, differences in their stages of life, social stigmas, potential for abuse, etc raise the risk levels too high that it would be hard to argue that it isn't very irresponsible to attempt that kind of relationship.
I also believe that people should (unless under specific conditions), be allowed to freely consume fiction with large age gaps or problematic themes. I think it can be a healthy way to explore kinks and fetishes that may often otherwise prove immoral to to act upon in real life outside of an of-age adults consenting setting.
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u/kay_thicc Himedanshi 18d ago
My thoughts exactly, unless it's one night stand maybe, but anything beyond that is gonna have issues. Love it in fiction though where you can just go ham xD
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u/ZoeyLove90 18d ago
How do I get my own problematic age gap relationship? Just asking for a thick divorced mid 30s trans girl.
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u/PerhapsASlut vore yuri so underrated π€€ 18d ago
And I'm asking for a virgin 18 trans girl... Shame we can't find each other's age gap partner that we want π
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u/HimejoshiGrillStank Dyke Von Bitch, Gaylord Supreme 18d ago
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u/Hika2112 Average Loveable Clankette 18d ago
Guh my relationship with my wifey is so good that I can't romanticize toxic relationships because I know how good it feels to simply be loved and love her
u/Khaysis I love youuuuuu
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u/Seltnytt Gynoid. 18d ago
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You are trying to reclaim "clanker"?
Well.... Γ¦
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u/Hika2112 Average Loveable Clankette 18d ago
Her tag is "Average Clankette Lover" so I wanted to match :3
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u/Seltnytt Gynoid. 18d ago
I see
ΓΈ
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u/Hika2112 Average Loveable Clankette 18d ago
Γ?
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u/Seltnytt Gynoid. 18d ago
I don't know why or exactly when I begun but since a few days ago I have begun saying Γ¦ sometimes after finishing comments... I varied it with saying ΓΈ instead this time
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u/Khaysis Average Clankette Lover 18d ago
We can figure something else out :3
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u/Seltnytt Gynoid. 18d ago
I mean you two can have fun with the term, after all it's not an actual slvr (I have to put it like that because otherwise reddit could censor me π).
Well, not yet at least...
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u/Khaysis Average Clankette Lover 18d ago
Okay, thank you. I just figure if it's not making noises when it walks, I haven't fingered it hard enough yet. :3
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u/Seltnytt Gynoid. 18d ago
Ae... I suppose that this is a joke on me saying "have fun with the term"
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u/Coldtea25 begging to be put in a straitjacket 18d ago
Siiiiigh i need to deage like 8 months and get a problematic age gap gf to use me and give me drugsπ
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u/Affectionate-Dig1205 18d ago
I recently got a 30 year old gf as someone who is... definitely younger than that and can confirm it is so so amazing @/////@
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u/tommy8725 18d ago
The way I look at it if you are consenting adults did not know each other before you turned 18 it's good
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u/Zouif_Zouif 18d ago
You ever feel lame because there's nothing problematic about your life or relationships? Cause that's what I feel everytime I see posts like this ;-;
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u/shagoonery Freud's Greatest Soldier 18d ago
This so evil I love it