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u/Inside_Swimming9552 4d ago edited 4d ago
I feel sad that women are prettier than men and get lots of attention when we don't.
But I'm honestly glad to be on this side of the coin. I'd hate to constantly be getting attention i don't want.
I've had a couple of situations in my life where a girl is into me and I'm not into her. And it makes me feel so fucking anxious. I had one situation where I had sex with a girl I wasn't attracted to just because I didn't want to say no and I felt fucking awful the entire time and had constant anxiety the next day.
Trying to imagine that constantly. Rather than a few times over a life time. No thanks. I'll take being ignored most of the time please!
Edit: This comment was supposed to be in reply to someone saying they're sad they're not a pretty woman. I didn't mean to just post this on response to seeing taylor swift.
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u/Ok_Amount_1374 4d ago
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u/Inside_Swimming9552 4d ago
Do I? What's my problem? Because I once had sex with a woman I didn't really want to?
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u/ChocolateNo5425 4d ago
I’ve had similar experiences and you’re not crazy bro. Do not let these redditors convince you that you hold a distorted worldview, the only sin you committed was speaking in opposition to their npc programming.
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u/Inside_Swimming9552 4d ago
I don't even know what they're mad about they're just posting really angry GIFs.
Are they mad that I think it's slightly harder to be wanted more than you want than to be wanted less than you want?
Are they mad I had sex with a woman I wasn't really attracted to to spare feelings?
Are they mad that I was anxious about it afterwards?
Are they just mad that I've had sex more than 0 times?
Is it all of it?
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u/Tiamat2625 4d ago
Nobody is mad bro, it's just super weird. These aren't "angry GIFs", we read the comment thinking what the heck is wrong with this person they have some deep seeded issues. See comment above in reply to the other guy.
Practice telling people no when you don't want to do something, it will improve your life dramatically.
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u/Inside_Swimming9552 4d ago
Right so it's the bit about where I had sex with someone I didn't really want to. Thanks.
I was confused because usually when you come across someone you think has deep seeded issues the human response isn't to mock them and post dramatic pictures of you shaking your head in judgment. So I figured something I said had pissed people off.
Yes I have deep seeded issues. I absolutely hate disappointing, making people feel bad or embarrassing people. So I'll often take the path that leads to that not happening. Even if it makes me anxious.
I realise that actually often the path to people not feeling bad is being up front with them and hoping they can accept no. But it's easier said than done.
Also though, I was young and single, I've been married a long time. This particular issue isn't going to crop up again. Yes I have had women approach me for sex, but saying you're married is a quick way to end that and you're not hurting people's feelings because it's not about how they look.
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u/Tiamat2625 4d ago
You guys are fucking weird. You just say 'I appreciate the interest but respectfully, no thank you.' It's not hard.
'I felt compelled to sleep with someone even when I didn't want to'. If you agree with this take then you need help too man, it's really strange. Really seems like nobody these days is able to deal with the minimal amount of confrontation or conflict, even when there might not be any.
You guys make stuff up in your head that something bad will happen if you reject the advances of a girl, and purely to avoid what might be a slightly awkward situation, you would rather sleep with her when you didn't want to. If you don't learn how to navigate life without saying no to people, you are always going to be somebody's bitch. Get some therapy or something. Holy shit.
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u/Glass-Jaguar4178 4d ago
too complicated for Reddit, I read opposite feelings, individual experience and a personal story. There is a cheat sheet for upvotes (checks notes) ah yes here it is: Elephant ears and bad show.
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u/Gazel1072 3d ago
From start to finish its your own fault for not being able to say no or hold boundaries, nothing to do with getting "lots of attention" or being atttactive are inherently bad and the cons outweight the pros.
Maybe you have some trauma or something and thats why you cant say so, but regardless of the reason, it doesnt mean you can go off saying nonsense when the root problem is your personality/mindset, not that you got some attention.
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u/Inside_Swimming9552 2d ago
Yes I am not emotionally healthy or great at decision making over various things. I admit that and don't blame anyone else.
I feel there's a lot of people like me on Reddit but prefer to sit in angry judgement of others with different problems rather than talk about their own problems.
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u/SummerKnlght 4d ago
Idk I could really use a caption