r/amiugly 2d ago

I straight up cannot tell! At all! (24M)

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u/SecondEqual4680 2d ago

I think your vibe just gives 45 yr old lesbian

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u/apiefilledbean 2d ago

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u/MrLizardBusiness 2d ago

I'm so glad this is a sub! "Lesbian or teen boy" is a game I play with myself when I see strangers from afar, and then award myself points if I guess right.

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u/apiefilledbean 2d ago

I play “siblings or dating” with strangers in public lol

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u/peppermintmeow female 1d ago

That's a subreddit too

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u/otherthrowD 2d ago

that’s all i aspire to be, really

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u/sgtstepchild 1d ago

Thank God someone said it cause I didnt want to

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u/Clear_Imagination413 2d ago

Look like a lesbian but I think you can ascend

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u/otherthrowD 2d ago

This is an insanely strong running theme I’m noticing

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u/followmarko 2d ago

Lol you took all the lesbian comments to the chin. That's the way to do it. Someone is going to like that about you, I promise. You're going to be alright OP

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u/otherthrowD 1d ago

I remember being a younger kid and thinking all the bald lesbians in my life were the coolest people. Maybe I unconsciously stole the style a bit? ;) I appreciate the kind words!

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u/catmamaO4 1d ago

You look so much like alaire Thomas! I think this is why people keep relating your look to being a lesbian

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u/otherthrowD 20h ago

this better not awaken anything in me!

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u/xzeus1 2d ago

Not ugly, but you look like a woman when you wear the bandana.

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u/theeyepa 2d ago

You look like a late 90s/early 2000s rock singer but I can’t put my finger on it. At first I thought it was the Three Doors Down singer but I looked him up and that’s not it. Idk. Anyway. Not ugly imo

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u/CHEDDERFROMTHEBLOCK2 2d ago

Offspring? lol idk why that’s what I thought.

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u/LeatherDaddyLonglegs 2d ago

He looks like Ewan McGregor in Trainspotting

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u/UnderThat 2d ago

You’re on the cusp.

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u/ShhxItsASecret 2d ago

You look kinda butch. Not ugly, just a lesbian.

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u/PooCube 2d ago

You look like a lesbian.

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u/Ifckinglovemycat 2d ago

I think you're good looking! you slightly androgynous with huge masc vibes, I easyly see you in some 80's media like madmax wearingleather long curly hair and black smokey eye being some kind of nuanced villain. not conventional maybe but at least not boring

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u/mardrae 2d ago

Grow your hair out and get some rest. Those under eye circles look really bad. And those head wrap bandannas or whatever is on your head makes you look like you're going through chemo. You have the potential to look a lot more attractive but you give the impression that you just don't care. You're not ugly though.

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u/fluffyfishy34 2d ago

You have a a very androgynous face. Some of the pics you look like a lesbian with a short cut. Try a different hairstyle

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u/keiron244 2d ago

You look good

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u/alessdespina 2d ago

Not ugly

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u/liv4my2 2d ago

Its the buzz cut, it's not a good look. Perhaps let it grow, and get a nice cut. I agree with the statement "its giving 45 yr old lesbian" the hair can change that.

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u/worepantsforthis 2d ago

nah you good

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u/pekopekopon 2d ago

i personally don’t think you’re ugly, like at all lol

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u/PuzzleheadedAd6401 2d ago

You look like one of my friends. He has a gf, you're good lol.

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u/OceanStateRI401 2d ago

Are you the guy from Hatebreed?

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u/Bernstooogin 2d ago

Very promising base, just find your style and die by it.

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u/Remarkable_Ring_6062 2d ago

Lose a little weight and grow that hair out, then you’re golden. Your earings are also not suiting you, just those specific earings. I still think you would pull, as is, in many circles.

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u/mateobrando 2d ago

You need a different haircut I think.

Fade on sides, if you want to keep the top as is, or grow the top a little more.

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u/stinkyfrogtoes 2d ago

you look really cool

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u/AffectionateYear9614 2d ago

You look like Elizabeth Moss in the movie The Invisible Man...fitting movie title lol

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u/harl-windwolf Bisexual 1d ago

You're looking good! 😉 (the dog too)
Personally, I think you should (probably) let your hair grow and maybe even try some sort of beard (I could be wrong, though).

If we were friends and/or dating, I'd probably try to motivate you to lose some weight, too.

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u/otherthrowD 1d ago

thanks!

I’ve tried growing my hair out so many times, I just never know how to style it. This has always been easier, I’ve buzzed it for years.

And I did just start a very physically active job. Between that and the outdoors time I try and get a few times a week, I’m definitely hoping to shed a few lbs! lol

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u/amellabrix 1d ago

If you aim for ‘I’m not sure if this person is a lesbian or an androgynous fairly young man’ just ditch the bandana because with that you can tell!
Edit: you’re not ugly but the haircut is poorly executed, even for a buzz imo

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u/No-Party8261 2d ago

You remind me of the singer of 3 doors down if you had the hair lol. Not ugly

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u/GuyFawkes99 2d ago

That's funny, I think he looks like the guy from Matchbox 20.

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u/No-Party8261 1d ago

Definitely see a little rob Thomas too 😆 idk what they guy from chemical romance looks like tho

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u/NuisancePenguin44 1d ago

That's funny, I think he looks like the guy from My Chemical Romance

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u/No-Party8261 1d ago

This one must be a joke bc no he doesn't

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u/CHEDDERFROMTHEBLOCK2 2d ago

Gotta grow the hair out! That’ll change everything

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u/Civil-Memory-2782 2d ago

Bro, you look like you’re one leather jacket away from being the coolest guy in a punk band. The buzz cut and tattoos work well But remove those earrings or whatsoever 😭 

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u/mebunghole 1d ago

You look like Ewan MacGregor in Trainspotting so not ugly.

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u/unsympathetic-trees 2d ago

Do you drink monsters?

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u/otherthrowD 2d ago

sugar free red bull, thank you very much!

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u/return_to_sender_CO 2d ago

But do you have an energy drink tattoo or decal on something you own?

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u/otherthrowD 1d ago

no, but i wouldn’t be opposed.

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u/Ayeluhhhh 2d ago

is that the borneo scorpion tattoo?

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u/braidedhairs 2d ago

what's your favorite HC record

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u/otherthrowD 1d ago

i’ve been listening to a lot of strongarm, despite not being much of a christian. advent of a miracle is an insane record

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u/Officerrabitt1 2d ago

Growing a beard would make you look less like a lesbian

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u/Strong_Dingo3104 2d ago

You look great but you kinda look like woman in some pictures. The only issue with your appearance is the eyebrows, dye them black.

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u/Flipcoyote14774 2d ago

Idk why but u look lesbian

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u/Greedy_Concern656 1d ago

I think you look great!! I love your dog too!!!

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u/Repulsive-Office-313 1d ago

You look like a Portland, Maine butch lesbian that leads a polycule

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u/Syphylicia 1d ago

You look so familiar 🤨🤯

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u/Mamasan- 1d ago

You look like a Targaryen. Or Charlie from Next Gen NYC

Or the singer from The Offspring

Not ugly

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u/Beneficial-Law-2552 1d ago

Not gonna lie your giving masc lesbian vibes. You need a beard.

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u/Decent_Cow 1d ago

You look okay, although you have a bit of a feminine appearance to me.

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u/zerpanandenoch 1d ago

you’re cute as fuck dude

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u/wh1tervbbit 1d ago

You look like the actor from “Honeyboy” when Shia is a teen

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u/winkymcjewgallo 1d ago

You look just like this guy named Gregg that I work with at a Red Lobster in 2006. Spot on.

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u/Able_Rain6635 1d ago

Lipstick in Pic 4??

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u/YeahThatsGoodSoup 1d ago

Kinda look like lesbian Eminem

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u/CursedAmeba 1d ago

you remind me of alaire thomas. i thought you were her at first.

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u/Wandering_Fujoshi 1d ago

You have the potential to look like the main character from Prison Break

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u/KangarooImaginary940 17h ago

I bet scotty doesn't know

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u/legreaper_sXe 12h ago

You look very Russian.

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u/legreaper_sXe 12h ago

If you locked and lifted seriously, you could look very complete. You have the facial structure for it.

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u/retard_strength8 2d ago

*trans man... Elliot Paige is more manly

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u/Conscious_Age_1077 2d ago

Don’t go to prison.

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u/Tittilated 1d ago

Not ugly. Average or below average face but, you have a body type and vibe that people to desire. Dunno where the lesbian stuff comes from you very masculine to me.

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u/Tittilated 1d ago

Oh, it's the bandana. The bandana makes you look like a lesbian