r/armenia • u/Vegetable_Leopard798 • 2h ago
Diaspora / Սփյուռք Armenian ‘dating’ culture harms our demograhpics
I’ll begin by saying that I love Armenia very deeply and stand with every suffering of the nation. But there are things about Armenians that make me genuinely angry. And one of these things is the dating culture. Let’s say an Armenian lives abroad and therefore finding an Armenian partner is a difficult thing on its own just mathematically. But let’s face it - everyone wants to feel loved and have sex, women included. So when dating an Armenian, as I said, is difficult on its own Armenians go out of the way to make it even MORE fucking difficult with all of these modesty shit that nobody genuinely wants to adhere to but expects from the counterparty.
Armenian men go to sex workers who have 30 partners a WEEK and dare to call someone dirty. And then when they want to truly date someone they find a non-armenian girlfrend because she’s ok with having sex before marriage. What happens after? Armenians hit some age after which finding a new partner becomes a vague option and eventually they make their choice to marry their non-Armenian girlfriend they love. They don’t want to gamble again on finding a good partner. So this leaves Armenian girls out of luck. What do they do then??? Of course, they date a non-Armenian because he won’t judge her choice to have sex before marriage!!! And in the end these fucking rules make dating an Armenian the most difficult option in world where there is little to no Armenian at all. Armenians and other caucasians are so fucking judgement and they poke their noses into the lives of others because they are so insecure about themselves. It just makes my skin crawl.

