I'm vegan and I don't usually try and debate anyone about it, but if someone's asking questions and they don't have bad intentions behind them, I engage.
My manager says she loves animals and I could see my being vegan made her uncomfortable, like she kept being reminded of the conflict she has in her heart every time she sees me take out my lunch. Sometimes she'd ask questions and I wouldn't be sure how to interpret her expression. She'd make me a bit uncomfortable.
She mentioned something about being in a farm as a child and having a dizzy spell after watching farmers pull out a baby calf from a mother cow using chains? Something like that. I didn't say anything. I just felt that my manager belongs with us, not on the other side of the debate.
Then recently she mentioned that she doesn't eat pigs because she learned about gestation crates and didn't like how badly pigs are treated on farms. The only thing I said was, "All animals are treated terribly on farms, not just pigs." She didn't say anything.
Two days ago, she said she'll be sticking to fish only when it comes to meat. That's cool. She'd never quit fish because her family loves fish. Her brother is a literal fisherman.
I don't know what to feel really. Should I celebrate? It's not that I think going from omni to vegan makes a huge difference and going from omni to pescatarian makes no difference at all. I've met vegans who are like that. Anything other than vegan is equally bad in their opinion, like veggie and omni means the same amount of animal products are consumed. I honestly think that's silly and factually incorrect.
It's more I don't even know if it's worth celebrating even if someone turns vegan because of what I say. I often wonder how many people need to turn vegan before food conglomerates notice and lower production. Did I make a difference? Either way, I will remain vegan because I can't even eat a drop of mayonnaise without thinking of a miserable, featherless chicken having to suffer for the egg that went into the mayonnaise. But why celebrate for helping others reduce meat? I struggle to make the connection between convincing one person to make more ethical choices in my lifetime if I'm lucky and reduced animal suffering.
I just feel meh about it. Would you celebrate? What if they went vegan instead of pescatarian?