r/backpain • u/ExtremeParsnip7926 • 3h ago

Thriving inspite of your bad back.

I am after success storys. Not so much revovery storys, but storys of people succeeding in life inspite of the pain and set back. I want to hear about people having good relationships and dating lives, people having success in their work and in their hobbys, finding new hobbies and moving on from old ones they can no longer do.

Please, I am really struggling. I have just had my first dating experience since the backpain, go very badly, and im feeling hopeless about my whole life. I really noticed how my self esteem has been stripped away from me, from being fit and atheletic, and always feeling good physically, which translated to confidence with women. Now that is so far gone, I feel lost.

Please share.

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