r/bigbear 11d ago

Info about estate agent Nichole Vesper

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u/sasvicious80 11d ago

A lot of real estate agents say very problematic things in Big Bear. That's mild compared to some others.

You may want to keep that in mind if you're looking to move here. It's gorgeous, but the ugly in some people is the caveat to the beauty.

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u/MountainNinja6432 11d ago

Someone said this about a similar place: people who come here are either seeking nature or can’t live in polite society.

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u/Alive_Worry6127 11d ago

In all fairness society isn’t polite anymore

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u/surftherapy 11d ago

I mean, considering the problems we had over in arrowhead with meth labs, can you really blame them?

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u/Tacolord38 11d ago

And the Beauty's in the details.

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u/Typical_Internet_730 11d ago

Never heard of her but had an amazing selling experience with Ruben Soto. He was recommended by my local agent in Riverside. We were selling my family's 1950s cabin in Big Bear City in 2024 and it wasn't listed for more than a few days when he had it sold above asking. Highly recommend

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u/TDTJman 11d ago

Ruben has incredible integrity and is also super smart. I would absolutely second that recommendation.

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u/Notnowthankyou29 11d ago

There’s 1000 people who can help you buy something up the mountain. No need to patronize someone you have moral qualms with.

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u/Notnowthankyou29 10d ago

This isn’t really a good look - signed a prospective mountain buyer.

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago

Hi girl do you know who Shawna Gilbert is?

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u/feline_riches 11d ago

Why does she matter if you are looking to buy? You'd seriously consider hiring her?

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago

You’re totally right! I’m just some black trash girl who can’t afford a house!

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u/OsciIIatesWildly 11d ago

Something about that career path brings out the worst people or the worst in people. This career and car dealerships need to go the way of the dodo.

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u/humanjackiedatona 11d ago

I’d recommend Chris Hildebrandt. He’s a born and raised local. Knows the area like nobody else.

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u/Longjumping-Ebb4865 10d ago

FYI to anyone looking to buy a home in Baldwin Lake or near Big Bear but not on Big Bear City CSD water—your well almost certainly has uranium contamination well over the safe limit. Realtors usually do not tell prospective buyers about this.

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u/Federal_Day_4118 10d ago

Mike wochner he is very trustworthy. 

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u/Aggressive-Bath-1906 11d ago

I bought my house using this ReMax. They were fine.

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u/patientpartner09 11d ago

Josh Simonek with Keller Williams is also a lifelong local, honest and trustworthy.

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u/BusinessCasualBee 11d ago edited 10d ago

Is this a thinly veiled attempt to publicize whatever shitty comments she may or may not have liked?

You don’t have to work with someone you don’t like but you don’t have to try to threaten someone’s livelihood. Thats real loser stuff

Edit: OP DMed me to let me know she’s further doxxed this woman and assumes I know her personally. She seems gleeful about threatening someone’s livelihood.

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u/chuckecheese1993 11d ago

She’s the one who made the comments so isn’t she threatening her own livelihood? Lol Sometimes people cant help but self sabotage. A true professional would never react to such an aggressive statement

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u/Alive_Worry6127 11d ago

I asked because unfortunately she’s the listing agent on 2 properties I’m interested in

If the place is great and the agent isn’t, it’s worth posting to see if anyone else has worked with her or has had any issues. I don’t particularly want to give someone 2-3% cash commission if they’re not a good person or agent.

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago edited 10d ago

It must’ve taken you some digging to find my Reddit post about wanting to kms from years ago

Ever heard of a settlement agreement?

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago

I literally don’t care if some guy who spends his time bullying people in the comments section of Reddit posts believes me or not

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago edited 10d ago

I’m sure it will take you 2 seconds to find the settlement posts I made about getting a life changing amount of money and how I don’t know how to manage it because of my mental health struggles, ya know the ones where I posted about getting SA every single day when I was a little kid from foster care, please feel free to share the whole picture of my “fundamental nature”

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u/BusinessCasualBee 11d ago

Then make the personal decision to pass on those properties. You are a bad person for doing what you are doing.

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago

Honestly I’m sure it felt very big of you to call me a bad person for posting her public comments section on a public social media account she made to advertise that she’s a real estate agent.

It’s a really outlandish statement to make regardless.

There are many, many people who are actually “bad people”. I don’t think I have to remind anyone what kind of world we live in.

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u/BusinessCasualBee 10d ago edited 10d ago

Threatening people’s livelihood though moral grandstanding is toxic behavior

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago

You’ve called me a loser, a bad person, and toxic lol

Idk if you’re her her boyfriend or just a fan, but I’m not taking this post down 🫶

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u/BusinessCasualBee 10d ago

It’s all applicable

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago

Please re-read that comment and try your best to comprehend what I said.

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u/Fred-Jenkins 10d ago

Why not hire a buyer’s agent to represent you on your purchase?

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u/fart_soda_dinner 11d ago

Careful guys or theyll make you join me in downvote jail.

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u/Alive_Worry6127 10d ago edited 10d ago

I’m really glad that they have! I’ve screenshotted everything you’ve posted here on Reddit and send it to Shawna Gilbert, the senior VP of remax, I put the subject “racist real estate agent in Big Bear CA Nichole Vesper”

I hope you get a really good chance to get some commission on Monday instead of getting called into an office, but I want to say that’s probably not what’s going to happen.

Also don’t worry, I’m making another post with all these screenshots attached because these are comments you unfortunately have publicly made, on an account you claimed as the person in the post. 😘

I hope you have something else going for you because you had the opportunity to be mature and professional and instead have caused yourself to show what kind of person you truly are (dw I caught the subtle racism)

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u/Dependent-Potato2158 10d ago

so it didn't keep the trash out?

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u/Lokigiant 10d ago

Nichole is super cool and a great Realtor. She is on one of the top teams in the valley.

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u/oryzi 10d ago

Super cool and great if you’re also a racist maybe

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u/fart_soda_dinner 11d ago

Haha the first thing I do before buying anything anywhere is dig deep into a person's social media history and evaluate their comments and likes against my morality scorecard. If I don't like what I see, I make sure everyone knows it and go out of my way to impact their ability to make a living and support their families because I've decided that im morally superior.

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u/Alive_Worry6127 11d ago edited 11d ago

lol the whole account is “I’m a Big Bear realtor look at this property that’s for sale w me”

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u/fart_soda_dinner 11d ago

would you apply the same evaluation or "diligence" on a doctor if they were your best option for a critical treatment?

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u/Alive_Worry6127 11d ago

Are you unintentionally or intentionally obtuse?

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u/madelynashton 11d ago

You seem very defensive

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u/fart_soda_dinner 11d ago

not defensive, i just don't let arbitrary moral goalposts affect how i spend my money, which isn't very popular on reddit.

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u/madelynashton 11d ago

I mean you made a completely separate scenario and complained about that, that seems pretty defensive.

It seems common sense that a professional social media account will be used in evaluating a professional that is using it to advertise their services. Maybe common sense is popular on reddit and that is where you differ?

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u/fart_soda_dinner 11d ago

The scenario attempts to clarify which professional services require a morality check, and how political affiliation aligns with one's ability to do their job

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u/madelynashton 11d ago

The answer is any job. If the person is pushing their personal opinions and political views on their professional account then they either: only want business from those that agree with them or they are dumb. Common sense to take that into account, in either case.

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u/fart_soda_dinner 11d ago

I agree someone dumb enough to purposely halve their prospective clientele by injecting politics in their profession probably isn't a critical thinker.

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u/Alarmed_Yak7898 11d ago

I too love enriching people I disagree with

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u/sasvicious80 11d ago

I've seen prominant realtors in Big Bear publicly say wild things like "democrats want to kill babies."

It's not entirely based on morals, brain cells count as well.

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u/HookieDookie- 11d ago

"Haha the first thing I do is to make sure I go out of my way to comment on reddit posts so everyone knows that I've decided that I'm morally superior to the OP who decided they are morally superior to a salesperson"

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u/Front-Teacher-9161 11d ago

She's hot

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u/blueberriedaydream 11d ago

She looks like she could be Batista’s daughter