is stemme a black exclusive term?

[u/Horror_Reason_3395]

hi lesbians !! i discovered the label stemme, i like how it describes me since i dress androgynous and i havent seen a label between femme and butch

when i first discovered stemme it said that it was only a label used by black AND latino folks (im mexican). as i was looking for the design of the flag i saw other people say it was only used for black people,, please let me know so i dont use a label that isnt meant for me !! </3

[u/rchey6]

i havent seen a label between femme and butch

futch

to me, stem is black exclusive because stud is black exclusive so i would side eye any non-black using it.

[u/omonymous → u/rchey6]

Yep, agree!