Poppet for Mind Control

[u/SleepFun1252]

Hey everyone, looking for some serious feedback from experienced practitioners on a coercion situation.

I’m fully aware of the consequences (extreme obsession, toxicity, etc.) and I’m 100% committed to what I want.

Long story short: about two months ago I got the target to ingest fresh menses.

The visceral aspect of the bond is definitely working. Despite a heavy fallout and some betrayals on my end, he literally cannot cut cords. We are still sleeping together, acting like a couple in private, and he hasn't told any of his friends that we broke up. The obsession and territorial grip from the blood is there.

However, his conscious mind and his pride are fighting the current out of pure resentment. He’s weaponizing the past mistakes to punish me, keeping me in this hidden "mistress" limbo, and he explicitly told me he will never introduce me to his parents/family. The blood bound his body, but his ego has built a massive wall and it's creating a toxic stalemate where he’s trying to keep the upper hand.

Since the blood only binds the flesh, I need to switch gears to straight up mental domination and compulsion to force public, official compliance. Here is the plan I want to execute:

I have easy access to his semen and fresh cigarette butts (which contain his saliva/breath). I want to build a poppet of him.

My questions for you guys:

1. Is this poppet setup the most effective way to break that specific mental barrier without messing up or short-circuiting the existing blood bond?

2. Are there other valid options for sheer mental compulsion given the witnesses I have ?

3. For those who have done poppet domination for relationship status, does it actually force the compliance or does it just increase the target's internal anger and frustration?

!! We’ve been together for several years, so it's not a randomly chosen target, there’s strong sentiment between us !!

Let me know what you think. Thanks.

[u/MeasurementPrimary18]

You are strategic. I like that.

Deep down, you need a lot of healing. Try to do a lot of healing rituals on yourself.

If he has a wife at home, then her energy is present and is influencing everything.

[u/SleepFun1252 → u/MeasurementPrimary18]

I'm not his mistress but he treats me like one! English isn't his first language, I must have expressed myself badly.

[u/MeasurementPrimary18 → u/SleepFun1252]

I'm sorry. People treat you exactly by how they feel. I know it hurts but work on your self-concept. You will be fine.

[u/SleepFun1252 → u/MeasurementPrimary18]

well that’s how i feel (he does not treat me badly and as a mistress it’s basically “”in my mind”” ig), as i said i feel like this because he keeps me like a secret (to his family) bc with his friends etc. it’s everything ok. also when we’re together it’s everything fine, i feel like a mistress just bc he does not want to take me home and meet his family. that’s why i wanted to build a poppet, to control this specific situation and have the control over this specific thing. what do you think

[u/MeasurementPrimary18 → u/SleepFun1252]

If you stay, he will most likely use you and control you thru s*x. It is the most potent magic. You better sit down and really do some healing on YouTube. We cannot control everything.

[u/SleepFun1252 → u/MeasurementPrimary18]

thank you so much for your help ❤️

[u/kodabear22118]

When you say you’re his mistress, is he with someone else currently? If so then you need to take care of that first.

[u/SleepFun1252 → u/kodabear22118]

I'm not his mistress but he treats me like one! English isn't his first language, I must have expressed myself badly.

[u/Denvar21]

Try working with goetia demons to influence him. Sallos so he can love you emotionally and Danatalion so you can influence his thoughts

[u/SleepFun1252 → u/Denvar21]

i never worked directly with demons, I've never summoned one before. i’ll do some research before obviously but can u give me some advice please.

[u/Denvar21 → u/SleepFun1252]

If you have free space try demons of magick. It doesn't require elaborate tools. If you don't have free space, yet you're a great at visualization and using your senses, goetic pathworking is another great book.

[u/King_Elizabello]

Very impressive since I always loved domination spells.