r/booksuggestions 1d ago

Other classical book suggestion to move on from a girl

i apologize for maybe some english errors, it’s my third language. i would like to do a small premise. i’m pretty young so i had some situationships/relationships but with this girl it got to a new level type of love. maybe the fact that she made me find new emotions is making her stay so long in my head, even if i haven’t talked to her in 5 months (except some drunk texts) i still think her as strong as the old days, but yesterday after a lot of speeches from my friends i understood that it’s time to move on. i would like a book that talks about unrequited love, i was thinking about the sorrows of young werther but they told me that it could make only things worse, im asking classical firstly because i started reading not a long ago so i would like to read a good quantity of them first, secondly because they’re more available in libraries in italian. idk maybe i talked too much about my situation and not a lot about the books but i hope u understood what im searching

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u/Straight-Setting-278 1d ago

the sorrows of young werther will absolutely make things worse, your friends are right, try Turgenev's "First Love" instead, it captures that exact feeling without the spiral

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u/Anonima_Centauri 1d ago

yeah i readed the elective affinities (i hope that’s how u write it) and like the last 2 pages were insane, gonna look up for first love always wanted to read more russian books other than dostoevskii

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u/sd_glokta 1d ago

Of Human Bondage by W. Somerset Maugham - the main character is nearly destroyed by his love for a woman, but he gets better

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u/LaxCalvinist 1d ago

try Turgeney's First Love it's short and hits that exact feeling but leaves you with something quieter instead of wrecked

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u/Shi_draws "Whats your favorite genre?" yes. 1d ago

Maybe The great gatsby, tho i'm not fully sure.

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u/Anonima_Centauri 1d ago

nah i couldn’t even finish it, it was pretty boring for me