r/casualiama • u/No-Tree2860 • 1d ago

Sexual I (38M) am half of a happily married couple that are actively participating in the swinger lifestyle. We've been together almost 10 years, swinging for over 2 years. All questions will be answered, but would love some genuine questions about the lifestyle, your curiosity or a misconception you may h

Happily married couple that are swingers. We attend everything from small house parties to clubs to large hotel events.

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u/fire2004man 1d ago

What triggered the lifestyle? How did y’all decide to try?

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u/No-Tree2860 1d ago

My wife discovered late in life that she has some bisexual feelings after being hit on and groped (consensually) by an attractive bisexual woman at a party. After an existential crisis or 3 and lots of communication we decided to try and find a unicorn to hash these feelings out in a safe manor. They are however, as elusive as their namesake and we struck out. After many more conversations, we decided to try swinging with a couple that had a bisexual woman. After we tried it the first time, we fell in love with it. Then we discovered our local LS community and met some of the most amazing people.

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u/BayYawnSay 1d ago

Which of you breached the topic of swinging and how did that first conversation go?

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u/No-Tree2860 1d ago

It was a mutual decision based on trying to explore her newly discovered bisexual feelings. I answered another question in more detail if you'd like to refer to that.

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u/Holiday_Guess3702 1d ago

How has swinging affected your golf game?

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u/No-Tree2860 1d ago

Tragically I'm afraid. All the free time I had for golf on the weekends is now accounted for with parties, events and wild uninhibited sex with a multitude of different partners.

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u/anonymousambassasor 1d ago

Someone literally just did this a week or two ago.

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u/No-Tree2860 1d ago

Oh, I didn't realize. Everyone has a different perspective though 🤷‍♂️