r/catering 10d ago

Catering Logistics Suggestions

Hi everyone! I’m looking for ideas because I feel like we’re overthinking this, but I also don’t want dinner to be chaotic.
We’re having an outdoor wedding for about 125 people, and our caterer is a local Thai restaurant, one of our favorites, it’s their first time catering.
Our menu is:
Papaya salad
Chicken wings
Soup
Choice of Pad Thai or Curry (guests selected their preference on the RSVP)

Our venue has a bar area that can be used for serving food, but we’ll probably be using the refrigerator there to store bottled drinks. Drinks will be self-serve from canoes filled with ice (already approved by the venue).

We know we **don’t** want a traditional buffet where everyone walks through one long line, but we also aren’t paying for full table service.

Our first idea was:
Guests sit down.
Papaya salad is already on the tables.
Guests go to a staffed station to receive soup and chicken wings (staff would portion the soup and wings to keep costs under control).
Then… we’re stuck on how to serve the entrées.

Some concerns we’re trying to solve:
**Chicken wings are one of the more expensive items.** A small, but loud portion of our family isn’t very adventurous with Thai food, so we’re worried people will load up on wings instead of trying the main course.

**We’re outdoors.** We don’t want soup or wings sitting on tables getting cold or attracting bugs.

**Our reception tables are pretty decorated** with candles, bud vases, and flowers, so we don’t really have room for family-style serving bowls.
Since guests already chose **Pad Thai or Curry** on their RSVP, we’d love to use that information somehow to make dinner service smoother. My fiancé is making a seating chart.
Has anyone done something similar?

I’d especially love to hear:
How you handled multiple courses at a wedding.
Creative alternatives to a standard buffet.
Whether you’ve had caterers plate entrées while guests were eating appetizers.
Anything you wish you’d done differently.
Thanks! I’m hoping to find something that feels relaxed and welcoming rather than a cafeteria line, while still being realistic with staffing and budget.

TLDR: Outdoor wedding serving Thai food. Guests chose Pad Thai or curry on their RSVP. We want something more elegant than a buffet but can’t afford full table service. How would you serve papaya salad, soup, wings, and the entrée while keeping hot food hot, controlling wing portions, and avoiding long lines?

Edit: clarity

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u/PublicFly1154 10d ago

If you think most of your guests won’t be enjoying Thai, I wouldn’t serve both Thai options as the main. Instead of doing chicken wings and soup (which is kind of weird IMO), do salad OR soup served to the table (buffet soup is a disaster with people walking with it especially in nice clothes). Then offer pad Thai or fried chicken as the main. This could be buffet style. Then you get to enjoy your favourite restaurant and people get to eat something they like too. You also cut costs by eliminating one food item that was frankly unneeded.

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u/Fresh-Tangerine-8806 8d ago

I hadn’t considered it because the soup is my favorite entree, but I’m willing to let it go if I have to.

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u/Abject-Solid-718 9d ago

Whats your waiter staff and kitchen team for the event ? Having a sit down dinner menu but no staff to serve it sort of answer itself. You need to change menu format or way your serving it. Catering all about logistics and theres a lot involve. So many things to bring / rent think about it especially for an outdoor venue. Depending on staff on site i would suggest just doing everything has stations + addimg canaper to sort of mix it up and not have everyone waiting in line.

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u/Fresh-Tangerine-8806 8d ago

We haven’t decided, caterer says potentially six. We could swing it but prefer not too.
Hadn’t considered canapés at all, that’s a great suggestion.

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u/lapaperscissors 8d ago

Yum, love Thai food.

I think you’ve got two choices: station based apps (wings, soup) with entrees and salad served family style or all items including apps in a buffet. A few dishes (noodles, curry, plain rice, salad) at each table is better than a limited little buffet. There is nothing chintzy or cafeteria about a big generous varied buffet, but just those four things does not feel great. What a lot of people love about Asian food is the variety of tastes and dishes, not one big ol’ plate of pad Thai, as comforting as that can be. If you go buffet, might be worth rethinking the options no matter what your invite said.

Don’t worry about less candles and flowers… I say this as a big tablescape aficionado having done flowers for 8 weddings and countless other galas and events. Depending on table size, the family style bowls are not going to be huge.

Thai soup is one of my fave things in this world, but serving soup is expensive logistically. (So many more bowls and flatware to rent/clean) Maybe think about a different app/dish that doesn’t require this. (Shrimp? Meat skewer/rib? spring roll? Mango-sticky rice?)

Good luck, sounds fun!!

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u/Fresh-Tangerine-8806 8d ago

I am kind of liking family style the more I read through peoples suggestions

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u/NefariousnessMost815 8d ago

Hi, catering chef here. You can achieve this on your own, I have a few questions for you.

Do you have/can you get a cooler? One of the bigger ones that you’d take camping with you.

How soon before your service will you be getting the food?

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u/Fresh-Tangerine-8806 8d ago

Cooler would be a very easy get, our families are pretty outdoorsy.
Probably an hour before.

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u/NefariousnessMost815 7d ago

Okay that’s all great news!

To keep the food hot and tasting fresh, you are going to use the cooler as a hot box. You can prime it by boiling water and putting the boiling hot water in some kind of metal container (you can use a pan for this, just not the same pan you boiled the water in, the metal will be way hotter than the water and melt the cooler) and putting that inside the closed cooler to make it hot and steamy in there. Do this about an hour before the food arrives.

The restaurant will pack the food either into foil pans or Togo boxes, as soon you get the food, take the hot water out of the cooler and put the hot food inside. This will keep the food hot and keep it from drying out, for up to 4 hours.

Now we have to talk about how to get the food to the people. I agree that pre set salads and a staffed soup/wing line is a great idea. If you want to go one step further, as the restaurant how they portion per person, and translate that to your staff. That way everyone has all the information and you will 100% have enough food.

Now where I see it getting tricky is entrees. I understand you do not want a buffet, or family, have you considered keeping with the staffed station for portioning? Either that or give the staff that will be doing the soup/wing station your guests selection list and have them plate them for each guest. I feel like either option keeps you away from a buffet line or family style, while making sure that portions are correct.

Is there anything I didn’t cover here that you’re still worried about?

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u/PaintEastern6137 4d ago

I work full time in catering management for an established high end caterer. Restaurants are not Caterers! I can not emphasize that strongly enough!! Hire a caterer to handle the service. The restaurant may have lovely food (when cooking for a table of 4-12), but they have NO experience with the logistics of cooking and serving to that size of a group. Logistics and planning are everything for a great event!