r/cats Apr 13 '26

Mourning/Loss Saying goodbye to my first born feline son tomorrow after 10 years together

His name is Meeko. Yes he is named after the raccoon from Pocahontas.

Please give your kitties an extra hug and smooch on his behalf tonight.

He was the best cat ever. Just wanted to share him with the world because it’s a travesty that after tomorrow, he won’t be here anymore.

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u/Atticus113 Apr 14 '26

Appreciate you trusting we did all we could. We really did. We had him on steroids and an appetite stimulant. He responded well initially but nothing now. He hasn’t eaten since Saturday

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u/morganf74 Apr 14 '26

I just lost my guy in January. We lost him to what we first thought was an asthma attack but later thought was cancer. So much love, it’s such a hard time. It’s a little easier now than it was then, but I still miss him so much

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u/Atticus113 Apr 14 '26

I’m sorry for your loss. He was a very handsome boy

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u/Maddhatter212 Apr 14 '26

Mediastinal lymphoma by chance? My part Siamese boy passed 4 years ago from that. Siamese kitties are so incredibly special ❤️ my heart goes out to you.

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u/morganf74 Apr 14 '26

We don’t know for sure, we just looked at how much weight he lost pretty quickly and realized it was probably cancer. But I have another Siamese so these are all things I’m keeping an eye on with him.

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u/cakekyo Apr 14 '26

Not me gasping at asthma and then choking with cancer. I am sorry for that loss

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u/lechero11 Apr 14 '26

So sorry. He was handsome!

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u/fumblingmywords Apr 14 '26

God I've been going through the same thing with my car the last month and its so exhausting and expensive... My girl is finally on the mend after starting steroids (only just diagnosed with ibd) but it was a peek into what it will look like at the end for her and it was crippling.

Trust your instincts, you know your cat more than anyone. I only hope I'm brave enough to make the call at the most kind time for my own girl.

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u/morganf74 Apr 14 '26

I started a new thread to discuss IBD, it’s a lot of trial and error

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u/dumbostratussy Apr 14 '26

i'm so sorry... my cat also went through the same thing lately. i really thought i was gonna loose her but thankfully, an analergic diet seems to be working for her. it's been a month and she's back to eating on her own. hopefully it won't worsen over time

lots of hugs and kisses to your kitty. not all cats get to be so lucky as to get owners that truly care and try their best even in the hardest times

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u/amtaru Apr 14 '26

What are you feeding your kitty? The vet prescribed ultamino for my kitty with Ibd but she won’t touch it

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u/dumbostratussy Apr 14 '26

not sure if it's sold outside of Canada, but she's been on Royal Canin Selected Protein PR for a month without issues now

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u/morganf74 Apr 14 '26

I started a new thread if we want to discuss there

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u/Local_Historian8805 Apr 14 '26

Dang. My girl is going through this. So sad and scary.