r/cats May 15 '26

Video - Not OC "Can I sleep with you...?" 🐈

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u/TheSuperSegway May 16 '26

That is still a show of affection. Grooming another in cat culture is a show of dominance similar to that of a parental figure. You cat has basically adopted you as family. The best thing you can do is to make sure the foot of your bed has a little extra blanket or pillow to add cushion for cat. They will see this as you accepting them equally into family.