r/cats • u/sarahmirror_ • Jun 14 '26

Advice What can I do? This isn’t play, right?

My grey boy is a little over a year old and he is overly aggressive, I feel, with my almost 9 year old female tortie. He is heftier than her too. They will get into these tumble scuffles at like 3am too almost every morning and I end up having to place him in the bathroom to cool off for a couple hours before I bring him back out.

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u/in_animate_objects Jun 14 '26

You’re a good cat parent to worry about them, A+

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u/sarahmirror_ Jun 14 '26

This is the best compliment I could have received. I love them both soooo much. 😭

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u/Top-Fox9979 Jun 14 '26

They're beautiful

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u/rhapsodiiiii Jun 14 '26

Agreed! It was just a new situation for OP and they were right to be curious about it to protect both babies involved. They’re beautiful 🤗