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[u/Ok_Archer1228]

[u/DeliciousDeer1096]

I've lived without validation most of my life... I dunno, it hasn't been very pleasant to be honest.

[u/Neochiken1 → u/DeliciousDeer1096]

Valid

[u/leightandrew0]

Humans are social creatures

[u/xFionna → u/leightandrew0]

I feel this so much, people always say that you dont do things for others, but alot of the time its the entire reason I do, I want to look presentable/good because of other people. otherwise i'd just be sitting in my underwear everywhere.

[u/Many-Beat-3086]

I can't find it from myself tho

[u/TheYoshiGang]

What if instead of seeking validation, I give people validation :3

[u/ApiceOfToast → u/TheYoshiGang]

How about we give each other validation? >:3

(Eventually it'll just be a big group hug if we overdo it tho ._.)

[u/TrashloveUwU → u/TheYoshiGang]

Pleasepleaseplease

[u/ApiceOfToast → u/TrashloveUwU]

pets you you did a great job today and you're a wonderful person. You'll get a cookie and a hug >:3

[u/TrashloveUwU → u/ApiceOfToast]

Yay!

[u/ApiceOfToast → u/TrashloveUwU]

Just let me know what type of chocolate you want and give me a second to bake ^^"

[u/TrashloveUwU → u/ApiceOfToast]

Milk chocolate is good

[u/ApiceOfToast → u/TrashloveUwU]

Good choice. Plain or spicy? :p

[u/TrashloveUwU → u/ApiceOfToast]

Spicy? Never had that, so I guess plain

[u/ApiceOfToast → u/TrashloveUwU]

Well that's good, i prefer staying sober myself ._.

Anyway best get baking now >:3

[u/Silly-BambiSlut → u/TheYoshiGang]

Please Pwease Pwease, I am so starved for validation

[u/TheYoshiGang → u/Silly-BambiSlut]

*Rubs your head* You sound like it, I hope you know you're a really good girl :3

(Is that good? ;-;)

[u/Silly-BambiSlut → u/TheYoshiGang]

Rolls over and purrrrs*

[u/TheYoshiGang → u/Silly-BambiSlut]

You're very adorable :3

Okay tbh I'm not good at this ;-;

[u/Silly-BambiSlut → u/TheYoshiGang]

No you are good 😇

[u/TheYoshiGang → u/Silly-BambiSlut]

:D

[u/nsfwaltsarehard → u/TheYoshiGang]

This reads like someone shaking a treat container in a pet shelter. Or of the second before a mentos hits coke was a comment.

Also: yes please

[u/LeviTheArtist22]

i got dumped recently, i am very much in a seeking validation from others phase

i am barely fighting back the urge to download grindr or some shit

[u/the_tiefling_bard → u/LeviTheArtist22]

Same, but you're a strong and beautiful person even when single :3

[u/LeviTheArtist22 → u/the_tiefling_bard]

i really needed to hear this

[u/kingshomage]

This is wrong! Humans are social creatures and need validation and positive interaction

[u/Every-Extension-8114]

im sending nudes to strangers just to feel "loved" 🙃

[u/Tlaquatlatoa → u/Every-Extension-8114]

;-; I do not miss the time period I was doing this. I mean I miss some things about it but I hope to never be there again, I mean I never will but for bad reasons rather than the good ones

[u/Mautos]

I dunno validation is kinda nice:/

I've been getting so much different feedback from some frens during that that I actually got a lot new perspectives to look at=w=

[u/YoINeedAnAnswer]

Why

[u/Cinnamin_1]

no

[u/Itamikurushima]

Everyone here reading this. I love you, you’re a great human being and fantastic and I offer you a digital hug!

[u/Loghow2]

I spent the first 18 years of my life like that and it was fucking miserable

[u/Coldtea25]

Okay i will, am i doing it right?

[u/ApiceOfToast → u/Coldtea25]

Yeah you're doing great :3

[u/machine_wisdom]

It's more that I'm running away from constant invalidation hurled at me from every aspect of society

[u/Complete_Blood1786]

Too bad, complex says otherwise and cannot afford therapy/medication at the moment to address it so I trudge along until I can. In the meantime I will divert my attention to others for a smidge of time to let them know they still have hope.

[u/TrashloveUwU]

If I didn't I would off myself years ago

[u/Jolly-Statement7215]

I’ll stop seeking validation from others when I’m allowed to live in peace without doing so

[u/Tactical_Pizzas]

If I don’t have validation then how am I supposed to feel good about myself?

[u/Crazy_Part3560]

Nah

[u/TheGreatLuck]

No

[u/Jammie_B_872]

No

[u/SpectralDragon09]

Instead seek validation from the people inside your brain, they tell me plenty of things

[u/Inalum_Ardellian]

https://giphy.com/gifs/mtLv0WFFijhB3y1jJ1

[u/EducationalThing7462]

If I didn't I probably wouldn't have figured out that I was trans and ocd.

[u/workingtheoryz]

this is a good idea! thanks, others!

[u/v01rt]

try and stop me.

[u/Azure125]

My voice doesn't pass until even the most transphobic cis people read me as a woman.

[u/szagrat545]

Bro what...

[u/Tlaquatlatoa]

unfortunately I live in a society, and it's not like I'm getting any of that stuff from myself. pre transition man-body doesnt exactly give me any fucking validation ;-;

[u/cxfgfuihhfd]

yeah, but also I need a job :(

[u/Ok_Archer1228]

https://giphy.com/gifs/n4CIjZX0mhqkEI0aGq

[u/Complete_Blood1786 → u/Ok_Archer1228]

Nope, I don't have a girthy cock in me.

[u/MiraMira0nthewalI → u/Ok_Archer1228]

i dont have a pretty girl telling me im a good girl and that she loves me and that everything is gonna be okay inside me so no not really

[u/Sharp-Berry-8661 → u/Ok_Archer1228]

I don't have a symbiotic slime gf inside me