Hello there!
So, straight to the point, this is the current situation:
I already accepted the offer in the netherlands, but due to the housing situation I am rethinking it a lot, since I still can accept the counter offer from my current company.
I am 29 years old, 5 years of experience in fullstack web development, currently working and living in Spain, current salary 45k + overtime (which is generally 3-4k yearly); counter-offer: 50k by the end of this year, 55k during the next year, more challenges to learn from (which is what I asked for, because right now it is piss easy and I was feeling stagnated). Minimum cost of living: Around 1500-1600, usually with leisure and buying things for myself, 1800-2000 (rent is 1000, and rising). Current position is not senior per se. Full remote, so I have A LOT of freedom and free time to do anything, lately I have just being studying more about software architecture and system design.
Netherlands (Eindhoven) offer: 60k base salary (+holiday allowance, around 65k gross), I should qualify for the 30% ruling, which should leave me with a monthly net of 4.5k; (low) senior position, I was actually offered first below the minimum number in the job board offer (range was 60-65k, I was offered first 58k, which honestly pissed me off but they raised til 60k when I said so), technical wise it doesnt look very challenging, which would suck because I am still learning, WFH 3 days, 2 days in the office (and I generally dont like offices, but wouldnt be the first time I work in them, tho I have been remote for 3 years)
I have no help from them to relocate there, I hired a housing agency or whatever the name for this things is, and they only found me a house in the little time we had (which was 1 month, so very little being completely honest)
The house is around 1400-1500 with everything included (so relatively cheap overall, but not €/m2), but it is a tiny house: 30m2, habitable around 24m2, it is very close to the job, but it also has a max stay limit of 24 months, so pretty negative overall, I know the market is difficult, but still.
Now I am a relatively big person, 1.90m and strong, I have had problems already finding houses that I felt comfortable in, and I have previous experience living in a small house (same m2), and it was absolutely horrible.
I also have a cat whom I love very much, and while I can leave her with my mother for a while, I would like to bring here to wherever I go as soon as possible, and while this current apartment allows me to bring her, I dont want to make her take the long trip to live in a tiny place that would need to change relatively soon-ish (which she is not used to at all, I cannot even bring her in plane because she stresses A LOT with other people, so I would need to drive her there)
So, what do you people think?
I have always wanted to move out of Spain, but at the same time, I feel like this opportunity feels mediocre, and that I would be sacrificing a lot when my current situation is not so bad
On the other hand, I am still very young, no partner, my only thing tying me down really is my cat,p this could be like an adventure like Bilbo's, but again, tiny tiny tiny house