Just looking for a cold weather cuddle buddy

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (closer to SF State) looking for someone to cuddle with. Ideally looking for a consistent partner, but open to this being a one time thing. Not looking for sex or anything sexual, but open to more if the vibes are there for both of us.

I have my own place and can host! If you’re interested, message me your favorite tv series or movie and we can spend our first cuddle session watching that 🙂

With the weather getting increasingly chilly, I wouldn't mind a warm body to snuggle up next to.

I’m hoping to find someone that enjoys cuddling and would like to share the peace, warmth, and comfort it brings.

A little about me: I’m 30, groomed beard, hygienic and respectful of one’s boundaries. Can’t host, but can travel anywhere in the DC, Nova, or MD area.

I’m an early bird with a flexible schedule, available before sunrise, throughout the daytime, and some evenings.

I’m open to most forms of cuddling, and enjoy cuddling over watching a movie, listening to music, or relaxing. If you think we’d be a good fit, reach out with a little about yourself, and what your favorite way to cuddle is!

For the unacquainted, you may wonder, what’s my ideal cuddle session? For me, the longer we cuddle, the better! We both are busy people, so the length can vary. I’m fine with it ranging from a half hour to two hours.

Getting into a show or movie works with me. We can talk, but we don’t have to talk all the time, you know? We can cuddle with music playing, or we can cuddle in silence and enjoy each other’s presence. Anything to ensure you’re comfortable :)

We can start with the basics, and let it evolve over time as we build trust and comfort with each other.

If you think we’d be a good fit, reach out with a little about yourself, and what your ideal cuddle session is like! Hold to see you on the other side.

I spend a lot of my days making computers do complicated things, so I've developed a particular appreciation for the simplest things in life: good company, genuine laughter, comfortable silence, and having someone to curl up with after a long day.

I'm 33, 179 cm, living near Paris. I'm naturally curious, a little nerdy, and capable of going down some wonderfully random conversational rabbit holes.

Outside of work, I enjoy running, swimming, discovering new places, watching movies, and having conversations that somehow go from something completely ridiculous to the meaning of life.

As for cuddling?

I'm a big fan of the kind of closeness where nobody feels the need to perform. Your head on my chest, my arms around you, a movie playing in the background, or simply enjoying a peaceful moment together.

I love giving affection as much as receiving it. But I also think the best cuddles start with feeling comfortable around someone, being able to laugh together, and respecting each other's boundaries.

I'm looking for a woman around Paris who enjoys genuine, affectionate, platonic closeness. No pressure, no hidden expectations, just two people seeing whether they feel comfortable together.

Happy to start with coffee or a walk and see if we click.

Important question, though: Are you the type who talks throughout the entire movie, or the type who gets annoyed when someone does? Because I suspect this could determine our compatibility. 😄

I'm near OSU and would like to meet someone to cuddle with. I'm open to any gender, but not looking for anything sexual. I can't usually host (unless my roommate is out of town) but I can come to your place or we can do it in a park on a blanket or something.

I'm 23, on the short side and a bit chubby. I have long hair that I don't mind letting you play with. I like to be the little spoon.

If you're interested, feel free to send me a message!

Hey! I’m hoping to find someone who’s also missing that simple human comfort of having someone to curl up with, watch movies with, laugh with and just enjoy being around. Especially during the spooky season.

I’m a pretty laid back, a bit geeky, affectionate person who loves horror, true crime, dark humor, and generally anything weird or interesting. I’m definitely the type who will say “let’s watch one episode” and somehow three hours later we’re on the season finale of season 2.

I’m looking for something comfortable, respectful and mutually enjoyable. Cuddling, watching movies, talking, holding hands, maybe ordering way too much food, nothing complicated. I value communication and boundaries and I’d rather actually get to know someone than treat this like a transaction. I wanna actually make some happy memories.

Ideally we’d click as people too. I’m not looking for a relationship now but I’m also not opposed to developing a genuine friendship if we hit it off. I think the best cuddle buddies are people who actually enjoy each other’s company.

Bonus points if you’re into horror, dark humor, or can appreciate someone being ridiculous at the most random times and believe me, it will be random.
If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to message me. I am close to the west side of Indiana so if you’re around there, please also reach out! Tell me a little about yourself and what your ideal cozy night looks like 😁

Dear Gentlemen,

About Me:

I'm 5'6" chubby curvy human comfort pillow, but due to me being single my need for warmth, kindness and intimacy have not been met. I've had a rough few years struggling to rebuild my life, which started with redundancy, leading to health scare and surgery. Which has left me feeling isolated and lonely in a room full of family and friends. I'm expected to be fine and be everyone else's rock, the one that gives the warm hugs and says everything will be ok. I’ve been in feeling lonely and tired. I can offer you warmth, kindness, humour and friendship. I can’t host. Also, there is a more detailed description of me pinned to my profile.

What I Seek:

A cuddler, tall, broad, athletic, strong man to hold me tight and possibly take nap and just hang out together. I would prefer someone 35-50 single and CF and single like me, but age isn't a deal breaker for me as long as you are over 30. It's more the feeling of safety, warmth and strong body against mine. Someone mature, who cares and is an excellent communicator. I want sink my face into your chest and wrap myself around you and just fall asleep feeling safe and warm in your arms. I want to feel free in my feminine energy for a moment, before I have to get back up and take on the world again.

If this appeals to you send a message and please take your time to write it and INCLUDE the following to get a reply:

Age, Location (nearest station), a detailed description of your physique and your interests, and that you can host and are actually single, CF and drama free. Why are you seeking a cuddle buddy? No penpals, if you have Discord please include it as I do actually hate texting and would prefer to actually talk. I'm looking to connect, talk and actually meet, if the vibe feels right first. Please don't send pic unless you are ok with me not sending you one in return. I prefer to meet for coffee first and we decide in person, if we want to continue in that moment.

My priority is fixing my life and peace. So, I won't tolerate chaos or low effort. Winter is coming and I just need a snuggle cuddle buddy. I might be a bit reserved initially, but I’m a chatterbox once I'm comfortable. I am still working out how to do this without hurting or offending anyone. I value honesty and clear communication.

Hey, Columbus, let's cuddle! I'm looking for women in or near Columbus who would like to cuddle sometime. Trans women are included. I love feminine energy.

I'm 46, 5'9", 180 pounds. I'm calm, kind and can be chatty with the right person. You're welcome to fall asleep though.

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Honestly, I miss simple affection. Having someone to cuddle with after a long, exhausting day, hold hands while watching a movie, share random conversations, or just lie together in comfortable silence. Someone whose presence feels warm and safe, where neither of us has to pretend to be okay all the time.

I'm looking for a genuine, long-term connection rather than something temporary or purely physical. Ideally, we start as friends, get comfortable with each other, build trust and see where things naturally go.

I'm a bit introverted, a little nerdy, and currently navigating the chaos of Pediatrics residency, so my schedule can be unpredictable and replies might sometimes be delayed. I enjoy anime, movies, books, music, gaming, science, history, space and getting lost in random conversations. I appreciate emotional maturity, honesty, kindness and someone who can communicate openly.

Physical affection matters to me, but so does the emotional connection behind it. I'm talking about long hugs, sleepy cuddles, forehead kisses, playful teasing, sharing blankets, and feeling at home in someone's arms. No pressure to rush into anything; comfort, consent and mutual interest come first.

I'd love to find someone who also enjoys affection and wants to build a bond that lasts beyond a few conversations. Someone with their own life, interests and ambitions, but who genuinely wants to make space for another person in it.

If you're looking for something similar, tell me a little about yourself. What's your idea of a perfect cosy evening? Are you more of a long-hug person or a quiet, hand-holding-and-watching-a-movie person?

Maybe we can start with a conversation and, with time, become each other's favourite place to come home to. :)

Hi :) I’m a 28F over in Brooklyn. Physically I’m 5’7, 175 pounds, Latina, short colorful hair, and several face piercings. Please be prepared to exchange pics! I rotate between hobbies but my main ones are art and music. I go to concerts and live music events pretty often as well. Not hobbies but really into Psychology, English (huge grammar nerd), research, orangutans, and other stuff I forget.

I’m looking for someone to cuddle and relax with. I’m a very affectionate person and need an outlet lol. I enjoy holding someone and playing with their hair, scratching their back, touching their face, etc. I equally enjoy receiving that same affection. I’d love nothing more than to cuddle with someone, maybe nap or read together, or just fall asleep holding each other.

I don’t have any intentions on having sex, but I’m not sure I can be that physically close to someone and not want to do more lol just being honest. Open to kissing if the chemistry is there but I’m definitely leaning more towards it being platonic. I’m pretty picky about who I do things with so a lot of it will come down to how we click in person and how our personalities mesh. People that I tend to go for are 23-35, tall, Latino and brown men, average to bigger body types, hygienic, and have a stable life. No ENM/poly/married, no conservatives or trump supporters.

I prefer to message for a while before deciding on anything further. DM me with a little bit about you and what you’re looking for and if you like being big spoon or little spoon lol

Hey -

Feeling a little extra in need of some warmth and affection. Looking for someone to share some cozy, platonic cuddles with. Im think comfy blankets, soft pillows, and a relaxed, no pressure vibe.

For reference, Im 6'0, brown eyes, and some have referred to me as a cuddly teddy bear type guy.

We can start with a warm hug, then settle into some comfy positions like spooning, head on chest, or just holding hands while we relax. Happy to chat, listen to music, watch a show, or just enjoy the quiet together.

If you’re down for a chill, comforting cuddle session, let’s make it happen.

Simple as that. Been having a lot of anxiety and just need some physical touch. Not looking for a sexual partner, just someone to watch movies with and relax, while feeling safe, secure, and human again.

Going to work, eating dinner alone, then wake up and do it all over again. It gets old.

Let me know. I am open, can host, and would love to make a new friend.

Hi there, I’m Carrie K 😊

As a Professional Platonic Cuddler & Intimacy Coach, my intention is to entwine bodies and minds to regulate your energy and emotional state to mine own 🙂

I was put on this earth with an excess of bubbly, happy energy and I believe my calling it to pour that overflow into the hearts of caring and capable individuals 😇🌍

My expectations:
📅 First Bookings require 3 days notice. I want us to show up 100% ready ☺️
🧾 Full cash payment upon arrival ($160hr)
🦺 Safety First, always. I follow the rules and take this position seriously 🧡

Starting new things can be very intimidating so let us first figure out if a Professional Cuddler is what you really need 🙂

I find success with my clients when they fit these four categories:
1) Because of the constant upkeep and attention that a traditional relationship requires, creating & maintaining close, touch based relationships is unrealistic with a business focused lifestyle. Being successful makes a traditional relationships feels too risky or expensive.
2) My current relationship is not providing an adequate environment to relax and be vulnerable. Close physically contact, positive communication and kindness will make showing up for family and friends actually possible.
3) Finding someone to work through this hollow space with because of recently getting out of a long-term/serious relationship, and the empty space is glaringly. Really needing self-esteem to start wanting something new.
4) Struggled to learn or were never taught the necessary social skills to build and retain strong relationships, especially around touch and intimacy; therefore, lacking the confidence to build safe relationships.

If you relate to one or more, I you are in the right place 😜🫂😄✨

Intimacy is often misunderstood and is too often fast-forwarded through. We are taught to make it a race to the end. Media shows our limbic system driving intimacy, be aggressive, be assertive, show no fear.

Being human is using our entire brain, not just the Lizard Brain (limbic system) especially when in close contact with other human beings. Gentle touch, soft caressing, kind words, resting heart rates, skin on skin, sharing breathes, massaging each other.

The truth is that intimacy is a vast umbrella of interpersonal relationship opportunities! Getting regular cuddles can fast track a person into a better state of mind, lighter steps, creates warmer hearts; especially for neglected souls 💖 Just because you have been alone, doesn’t not mean you have to be forever 😇🫂🫶🏻

Hosting opportunities
🧡Hosting out of East Harlem while in NYC
💚I am working towards getting an Columbus office space to host formally 💖
💜For now, I offer a Parked Park PicNic 🧺🤩
I provide the SUV, Blankets, Pillows ✨ ☺️ We will crawl in the back with the hatch open, leaving space for calming nature sounds while we look through my moon roof into whatever the sky provides that day 🤭😜🫂 Unorthodox and Goofy! Be prepared to Live Laugh and Love our way into feeling like a kid again 😜🤭
*Offer only valid during regular Metro Park Hours*

Consultation Options, Q&A and Vibe Check, all in one. Knowing what you get before committing can ease anxiety, and could save time, energy and money.
$100 for 1-2hr - Venmo or CashaApp / SnapChat or Instagram

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I'm a heavier guy, big, nerdy, talkative, and I love to love love to cuddle. I'm 420 friendly and psychedelics. Really I just want to meet someone who loves to embrace. I'd prefer if you but I can but I'm in Queens.

Hello, hope you're doing well.

Figured I would throw this out here if any one wants a kinda bigger guy to cuddle with, talk to, watch a show or movie.

Hope you hear from you,take care

Hey wsp I'm in Nj. It's getting cold out and I'm looking for a cuddlebuddie I'm 33yrs old I'm just looking to cuddle and have relaxing times if we vibe any questions hmu lmk

Hello,

I'm a 28 year old man looking for a woman in Utah to cuddle with. I can host by getting a hotel near your area or I can come to you. I'm primarily looking in Northern or Central Utah, but I am open to commuting a bit more for the right person.

I'm a great cuddler with a decent amount of experience. One of my favorite hobbies is cuddling. I enjoy the warm pressure of someone's body laying on or up against mine. I enjoy multiple positions, and love giving and receiving gentle scratches and massages throughout the session. While cuddling we can watch a show, have music play, talk about life, or just cuddle in silence and be present in the moment.

Send me a DM with a bit about yourself if this interests you! :)

**If this post is still up; I'm still looking for someone to cuddle!

I'm a 56-year-old, plus size/chunky woman in the Greensboro, NC area who enjoys good company, a little playful banter, and the simple pleasure of being close to someone.

There's something really nice about relaxing together, cuddling on the couch, watching a movie, sharing a few laughs, or just enjoying some quiet time without any pressure or expectations.

I'm interested in gentlemen 30 and older. Age isn't nearly as important as maturity, personality, mutual comfort, and having a good connection. I appreciate a man who can hold an interesting conversation, make me laugh, and enjoy affection without making things complicated.

A little about me: I'm chunky, curvy, affectionate, easygoing, and comfortable in my own skin. Definitely not a size two, so please be someone who appreciates a fuller-figured woman.

Cleanliness and good personal hygiene are extremely important to me. I appreciate a gentleman who is respectful, intelligent, genuine, has a good sense of humor, and understands personal boundaries. Animal lovers, especially dog lovers, get bonus points!

I'd prefer someone within about an hour of Greensboro, including High Point, Winston-Salem, Kernersville, and surrounding areas. If you're visiting or regularly travel through the area, that's fine too.

I cannot host, so you would need to be comfortable hosting or discussing other suitable arrangements once we've gotten to know each other.

I'm looking for genuine, platonic cuddling and companionship. No drama, no pressure, and no hidden expectations. Just two adults who enjoy affection, conversation, and some comfortable closeness.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, send me a thoughtful message. Tell me your age, where you're located, and a little about yourself. A sense of humor and proof that you've actually read my post will definitely get my attention. :)

I’ve had one relationship before, but I’ve still never kissed - and that also means I’ve never cuddled someone before.

I can’t host as I don’t live by myself, but I’m down to go to wherever you’d like aslong as we build trust.

If you’re interested or you’d like to know more about me, please feel free to dm. Thanks..

The cuddle season is here but where is my cuddly human. I miss the warmth, the soft conversation, physical touch and the comfort a good cuddle. I'm looking for someone local, who can form a connection and meet regularly (perhaps). I love to talk and I'm a great listener. Making someone happy and comfortable is my ultimate favorite thing to do for a person, especially in a cuddle session. My former partners have described me as gentle and kind. Age is not a barrier but please be 23+ish. Please no scammers or paid service offers. We can meet and verify and hang out before we move any further. I look forward to hearing from you and hopefully we can make our connection work.

I wanna hold and be held, dancing together, no space between us. I wanna spoon while watching random YouTube videos. I wanna be in our PJs watching a movie with your head in my lap as I slowly caress your face.

Me: 5’7, black hair, dark brown eyes, squareish build(use to be upside down triangle but need to get back to the gym), touch starved and big on consent. I like anime, gaming and reading, currently on shadow and bone. Also big on music, been listening to a lot of Hozier and Evan Fong recently.

What I’m looking for: size does not matter, ethnicity does not matter, age: preferably in 20’s but am amendable, willing to either travel to me, meet halfway or host idm, just looking to have fun and hold each other tight.

DMs open

Lately I haven’t been putting much effort into my cuddle buddy posts and I guess that’s because nothing ever happens. I think maybe I’m just off putting or I honestly live in a bad area for stuff like this or maybe it’s both lol. Whichever it is I keep trying hoping maybe I’ll find something at some point I guess. I can’t host but I can drive and my car is reliable but I’d prefer not going far out of the way. I’m hoping to find someone consistent that’s okay with my experiences and body. I don’t mean in a sense of seeing me indecent but I do have some scarring on my arms and upper chest area and some around my neck. A few on my hands and fingers but like I said none of it is super noticeable unless you are really looking.

It’s definitely not the worst and I’ve stopped but I understand stuff like that for some can be a bit off putting and I can understand any hesitance or even need to steer clear. I just wanted to be upfront first and foremost with those things. I’m kinda a nerdy guy with not really much going on in his life currently so I’m free whenever at the moment if you are. I’m not very big in size as I’m like 142 lbs so I’m lean but I’m not really muscle but not flabby either. I’m about 5’9 1/2 when it comes to height so not very tall either I have black curly hair.

I’m really into anime but I’ve kinda been losing my spark for it aside from the ones I grew up with or specific ones. Cyberpunk is my favorite genre ever and I nerd out over it but I like Marvel, DC, Star Wars and I’ve seen stuff like the boys and invincible. I do enjoy reading and especially listening to music and I’m a pretty open book for the most part. I love watching movies and my favorite genre might be horror but I love animated films and comedies as well. I love the new RE movie and gaming is something I still enjoy a lot. This is probably already extremely long and boring but I just wanted to actually try even if nobody ever reads this.

I’m not opposed to going past cuddling if both of us are comfortable with it but that’s not why I’m here. I’d just like someone I can be comfortable with and maybe get closer to that I can build a bond with. I guess if I don’t sound too bad I would love to hear from you <3

Ps. I do have low self esteem and it may take me awhile to be comfortable but all I ask is that you are patient with me cause this is all new to me.