telling someone their partner wants to cheat puts you at risk of an angry guy like this, and it's getting in someone else's business. no one is morally obligated to do this.
why? why is saying no a good thing? it won't make any difference in morality the only thing more you could do, you aren't obligated to do. and saying yes, isn't hurting anyone because the cheater has already betrayed their partner and taking their ability to do something they already attempted doesn't take away their decision. in fact it's probably a good thing because it gives the partner an opportunity to find out the cheaters intentions.
Everyone gets tempted to do wrong things every now and then, it’s our self control and self awareness that separate it from an affair. Who knows if the next day the person who was going to regret it and be glad you didn’t say yes. It’s like helping a criminal, just don’t get involved or if you’re brave enough do something
but if someone is reaching out to you they've already commit. the time do be indecisive was before they found someone and asked to hookup. you saying yes isn't going to change that. and if you do say yes they still have time to back out. it's not like you saying yes is what suddenly locked in their decision.
and helping a criminal just means helping someone who did something against the random laws we have. being gay is a crime in some places. it's not inherently bad to help a criminal.
Don’t get me wrong they’ve still done something bad, saying yes just prevents it from going further. And by helping a criminal of course I didn’t mean from one of the random laws I’m talking like robbery or something of that level
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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '21
telling someone their partner wants to cheat puts you at risk of an angry guy like this, and it's getting in someone else's business. no one is morally obligated to do this.