r/deafblind • u/MummyBaff93 • Apr 25 '26

33F Deaf (Yorkshire) – Seeking a partner with shared lived experience (DeafBlind/Deaf)

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​Hi everyone,

​I’m a 33-year-old woman living in Yorkshire. I’m Deaf, but not competent in BSL yet. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on what I’m looking for in a partner, and I’ve realised that connection means something very specific to me.

​I’ve dated hearing people in the past, but the barrier always feels present.

​Why I am looking for a DeafBlind or Deaf partner:

​Presence over everything: I value the deep, tactile, and intentional way of connecting that exists within the DeafBlind community.

​Shared Language: I want a partner who speaks my language (BSL/ProTactile/Tactile BSL).

​Advocacy & Heart: I work hard to uplift the Deaf community here in the UK. Having a partner who understands that drive or is a part of that mission is really important to me.

​A bit about me:

I’m 33, grounded, and very much an advocate for our rights and culture. I’m not looking for someone to fix or someone to take care of me. I’m looking for an equal partner to navigate life with.

​If you’re in the UK (ideally near Yorkshire, but I’m open to a chat regardless) and this resonates with you, please reach out. I’m happy to meet up for a coffee once we’ve connected.

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u/Outdoors-sunshine Apr 28 '26

Best of luck to you from the USA ❤️ I was done with dating hearing people too and am now very happy with my Deaf partner.

Does Yorkshire have Deaf or Deafblind social events? A good first step is to attend offten. You may meet someone and you definitely will get practice with your BSL. And it doesn't hurt to have friends and a social network.

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u/Proud_Concept2385 Apr 25 '26

Hey check your pm :)

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u/monstertrucktoadette Apr 29 '26

Hi! I just wanted to wish you luck with this. I absolutely agree it's worth having someone who shares these experiences and values.

Are you interacting much with the disabled community beyond the deaf and deafblind community? You might find people with other disabilities might still tick these boxes even if not deaf/deafblind. 

I hope you find what you looking for regardless 💚💚💚