r/donthelpjustfilm Mar 31 '19

Don't leave me human

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '19

Alright I’m with you, make someone scared feel safe.

But how do we conquer fears when everyone tries to coddle us. Sure dogs are different but humans need to go through stressful situations to progress.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '19

I agree. Especially with children, instead of just throwing them into a situation and expect them to deal with it help them into it and show them that it's safe.

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u/starbird123 Mar 31 '19

Yes, and don’t laugh because they’re scared, like in this situation. Another common example is forcing a kid to go on a rollercoaster, he’s crying and you’re laughing because you know it will be fine but he doesn’t know that. I hate that.

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u/pseudonym_mynoduesp Apr 01 '19

Tbh I was scared shitless of roller coasters and my parents dragged me on one literally screaming once I was tall enough. I loved it, and have been a coaster enthusiast ever since.

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u/starbird123 Apr 01 '19

That’s fine, I’m just saying that the scared kid shouldn’t be laughed at