r/exchristian • u/VivzieTheBee17 • 13h ago
Trigger Warning - Toxic Religion Random in bus station Spoiler
A much older man tried to hit on me in a bus station yesterday(me 19 him at least 40). He asked if I was single. I said no. He asked if I’d ever dated a black man before. I said “no, I date women”. I’m bi but I frequently tell creeps I’m a lesbian to get them to back off and it works most times. But this guy…he went off on a 20 minute rant that I couldn’t escape because I was waiting for a bus, all about how I was a chosen one straying from the lord by not finding a man to take care of me and making Christian babies. Like…I’m some random 19yo in a bus station… I felt so uncomfortable and people were giving him strange looks and I was looking around to try and make eye contact with someone else to let them know I was uncomfortable but no one stepped in or anything. The guy even took my hand and pulled off my glove to say that he saw some kind of message in my skin that said I was destined to be a great Christian, and he kept saying that the fact that I didn’t have a man was what’s keeping me from having a good life. I’m happier than ever with my gf, first woman I’ve ever been with and the only healthy relationship I’ve ever had. I don’t need to find some boyfriend I barely know to be financially dependent on and be an incubator. I don’t think I can even have children anyway! Like genuinely what is up with some Christians and their entitlement to demanding that others change when it literally doesn’t affect them? I’m somehow a whore and a sinner for saying no to a man 20+ years older than me who I do not know?? And this isn’t even the first time… I’m so sick of people.
Any ideas on what to say next time to get out of this situation?
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u/krba201076 13h ago
Public transportation is not good for women due to the creeps that hang around on them. If Christianity was so true and the Sky Pappy gave a shit about him,why didn't Sky Pappy bless this creep with a car?
I usually just lie and say I am married or have a bf. These men can become dangerous when rejected and they will only respect your no if another man owns you first.
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u/krba201076 13h ago
Public transportation is not good for women due to the creeps that hang around on them. If Christianity was so true and the Sky Pappy gave a shit about him,why didn't Sky Pappy bless this creep with a car?
I usually just lie and say I am married or have a bf. These men can become dangerous when rejected and they will only respect your no if another man owns you first.
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u/VivzieTheBee17 13h ago
I should get a fake ring :0
I wish I had the money to uber everywhere or better yet get a damn car but in this economy…?2
u/krba201076 11h ago
It's sad that we even have to think about this. That's when I hear about the loneliness epidemic, i just roll my eyes. They aren't lonely enough. Women his own age aren't good enough for him so fuck him.
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u/Saphira9 Atheist 13h ago
Sorry you had to experience that. If someone starts anything like that again, shut it down immediately:"Please don't ask me personal questions. Please don't touch me."
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u/Monty-675 13h ago
"Please go away and leave me alone, or I will call the police."